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Hey guys, made another approach and wanted to document it, I think the problem I’ve been having lately is closing, asking girls for plans and actual meetups during the approach, usually I’ll approach a girl, get her instagram, then try to set up something via that, which hasn’t been working.
Went out yesterday, but nothing notable happened, bad night tbh which had me a bit sad, but what better way to cure that than an approach and actually follow through the entire process.
I saw her using the foam roller, and asked where I could get one, at which point she offered me hers since she was done.
I said thanks, went down next to her and started using it, made small talk such as what she’s hitting today. Tbh the convo at first wasn’t great, so I paused for a bit and did my thing.
After finishing using the foam roller, I offered it back to her, to which she said no thanks, she said I could put it back though.
I said that no one puts anything back here, and rolled it someplace random, and asked if she comes here often.
She told me she was skipping class, to which I teased “OMG that’s so badddd” and “come on you gotta rise above the rest” also told her I usually skip class.
She told me that she didn’t want to hit her workout today, glutes after I said “oh all girls love to hit glutes.”
She said that she was going to half ass her workout, and then I built up the date idea, for us to grab smoothies below my house.
First, I asked her if she knows any good places for PROTIEN shakes, to which she said no.
Second, I said “god I am really in the mood for a PROTIEN shake under [location], can you recommend me a shake?”
She recommended some wrap, but didn’t know much about smoothies,
Then I said “ok today after this imma go and try out a shake, later this week imma take you and put you on a shake” to which she said sure.
I asked for her number then, she asked which form of contact I should grab, which I said the number, then said “wait ur not one of those girls who says she’ll text back and never does right” to which she said no, qualifying herself to me.
I then proceeded to grab her number, while she was typing it in, I asked her about her Halloween costumes, to which she didn’t have them picked out yet, to which I said “goddamn i thought most people had them picked out months ago, gotta get on that” it’s like a week away tbh.
After this I said nice to meet you and went about my day, girl was smiling but almost in a nervous way, apart from the handclasp, didn’t touch her tbh we were at a gym, didn’t want to come off heavy. Also asked her name a bit later, around when I was seeding the shakes idea.
Texted her the icebreaker text, no response yet only been 1/2 an hour.
Any other things I need to work on, to improve retention and get more dates and 1 on 1 with girls? I have no problem going up to girls, and flirting with them, but I can’t seem to take it anywhere after this. I know girls also see me as an attractive guy, I do catch them checking me out.
Went out yesterday, but nothing notable happened, bad night tbh which had me a bit sad, but what better way to cure that than an approach and actually follow through the entire process.
I saw her using the foam roller, and asked where I could get one, at which point she offered me hers since she was done.
I said thanks, went down next to her and started using it, made small talk such as what she’s hitting today. Tbh the convo at first wasn’t great, so I paused for a bit and did my thing.
After finishing using the foam roller, I offered it back to her, to which she said no thanks, she said I could put it back though.
I said that no one puts anything back here, and rolled it someplace random, and asked if she comes here often.
She told me she was skipping class, to which I teased “OMG that’s so badddd” and “come on you gotta rise above the rest” also told her I usually skip class.
She told me that she didn’t want to hit her workout today, glutes after I said “oh all girls love to hit glutes.”
She said that she was going to half ass her workout, and then I built up the date idea, for us to grab smoothies below my house.
First, I asked her if she knows any good places for PROTIEN shakes, to which she said no.
Second, I said “god I am really in the mood for a PROTIEN shake under [location], can you recommend me a shake?”
She recommended some wrap, but didn’t know much about smoothies,
Then I said “ok today after this imma go and try out a shake, later this week imma take you and put you on a shake” to which she said sure.
I asked for her number then, she asked which form of contact I should grab, which I said the number, then said “wait ur not one of those girls who says she’ll text back and never does right” to which she said no, qualifying herself to me.
I then proceeded to grab her number, while she was typing it in, I asked her about her Halloween costumes, to which she didn’t have them picked out yet, to which I said “goddamn i thought most people had them picked out months ago, gotta get on that” it’s like a week away tbh.
After this I said nice to meet you and went about my day, girl was smiling but almost in a nervous way, apart from the handclasp, didn’t touch her tbh we were at a gym, didn’t want to come off heavy. Also asked her name a bit later, around when I was seeding the shakes idea.
Texted her the icebreaker text, no response yet only been 1/2 an hour.
Any other things I need to work on, to improve retention and get more dates and 1 on 1 with girls? I have no problem going up to girls, and flirting with them, but I can’t seem to take it anywhere after this. I know girls also see me as an attractive guy, I do catch them checking me out.
