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Going after college girls as an older guy, how hard is it to get quality?

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Quality meaning the hot ones.

As someone who missed out on the college experience involving fun, partying, and hooking up I kinda wanna fill that void. Then again, I wonder if I can really get the kind of girls I am eyeing. I want the hot party girl types in college but from my own college experience, it seemed like these girls only went for college athletes, college frat boys, and party guys their own age in college. I am in my late 20s and was wondering if it is actually possible to get THOSE types of college girls at my age or if I am just too old for them.
 

Paulie Walnuts

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Totally possible, just depends on the way you go for it man. The way it works in my area is there's a big EDM scene here (and everyone knows everyone), there's quite a few late 20's to early 30's guys in there and a continuous rotating group of hot college age girls that changes up every year. I think it really just depends on how you decide to make an approach, what social circle you join, are you dressing to do the approach, what your fundamentals are like etc.

Dunno what happens to the hot girls as they age haha, the guys all stay the same but the girls rotate out, bit strange to me.
 

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Proactivity said:
Quality meaning the hot ones.

Everyone wants quality bro, but that's something one has to earn.

Proactivity said:
As someone who missed out on the college experience involving fun, partying, and hooking up I kinda wanna fill that void.

Don't do it for that. You're just going to wind up worse than where you were at before. Do it to improve yourself. Trust me, you'll end up a lot happier and in some ways stronger.
 

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I think it comes down to relating to them. At 40 I'm "dad" age to college girls. I can't relate to their mindset in life. They are in my kid's age bracket....

But when I was 25-30 I could still find common experiences to build upon.

One thing to remember is that college students are passionate about getting out and doing something with all this pent up knowledge. If there is something that you have real world application in you can really hook with discussing the application of the principles they are studying. You are doing what they want to in life.

Don't despair if you are in a blue collar aspect of their collegiate focus. You can turn that to asking them, about the principles behind something you see in your everyday job, and allow them to show off and feel an emotional boost. Be a good listener and highlight your similarities. Don't get into a disagreement or lecture them on the real world. Feed their passion.

You are going to find these girls interning, volunteering, attending conferences or trainings. Maybe working a summer job at a vacation spot.
 

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Also, online dating is great for this. If you live in an area with a big college, you'll find lots of party type college girls on apps like Tinder and Okc. They probably won't be relationship quality girls by any means. But you'll certainly find a lot of hot ones. Have fun ;)
 
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