Going crazy

[Sub-Zero]

My body rate is going So slow. I'm getting like one partner a year and I have been trying like crazy. I'm getting older and am paranoid I will never have a lot of partners, I'd what else to do. It's killing me how my body count is so low and I have been having sex since I was in my early teens. What else can I do guys?

As you can see from my last post I tried and failed.

I'm giving up hope and feelING hopeless, because I am getting older.

I want to get better at this, I want to get a lot of bodies, I'm trying and failing a lot, I succeed sometimes, but not enough. I want to get better at this so bad.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

How many approaches do you do a week?

- Anatman

 

[Sub-Zero]

How many approaches do you do a week?

- Anatman

I do cold approach about 3 girls a week. I approach social circle whenever there is a new attractive girl that comes in, it includes school, work, etc.

I know I'm not approaching 100 girls a week, but I still do and I should be able to get at least something more than a body a year.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

My body rate is going So slow. I'm getting like one partner a year and I have been trying like crazy. I'm getting older and am paranoid I will never have a lot of partners, I'd what else to do. It's killing me how my body count is so low and I have been having sex since I was in my early teens. What else can I do guys?

As you can see from my last post I tried and failed.

I'm giving up hope and feelING hopeless, because I am getting older.

I want to get better at this, I want to get a lot of bodies, I'm trying and failing a lot, I succeed sometimes, but not enough. I want to get better at this so bad.

I could understand your frustration, IF you were approaching 100 girls a week (have done it numerous times).

However, when you say THIS

I do cold approach about 3 girls a week. I approach social circle whenever there is a new attractive girl that comes in, it includes school, work, etc.

I know I'm not approaching 100 girls a week, but I still do and I should be able to get at least something more than a body a year.

Nope. No bitching. The only guys who can do 5-10 approaches a week and still get laid are super experienced/super-hot guys who have a high open hit rate OR can recognize girls who are receptive to approaches OR girls who give invitations (they're not the same thing).

Social circle approaches are hard to measure. I freaked out over this for a while, since if we count those, I have WAY over 6k approaches. Made me feel shitty for having the lay count I have, but it's hard to define an approach when it's not a rando.

Work harder.

- Hector

 

[Mr.Rob]

How many approaches do you do a week?

Great question.

I want to get better at this so bad.

No you don't.

If you did you would shut up and do the things you know you need to be doing to get the results you want.

If you're not getting a "high body count" or whatever your goal is it's your own damn fault.

Step it up. No excuses. If you don't want to put in the work don't wine about how HARD it is. It's a total disgrace to everyone that is taking LOTS of action and NOT complaining.

To me it sounds like you're wining about how much work it will take to get what you want.

Only the people that actually focus and work on themselves consistently get the honey's buddy.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Yeah I understand the 100 approaching part, but there are regular guys out there getting laid like crazy, that is what makes me annoyed. They are not cold approaching.

I will stop complaining about it, but these regular dudes are not cold approaching because when I tell them I picked a girl up today that I didn't know they are in shock that I pick em up like that.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Yeah I understand the 100 approaching part, but there are regular guys out there getting laid like crazy, that is what makes me annoyed. They are not cold approaching.

I will stop complaining about it, but these regular dudes are not cold approaching because when I tell them I picked a girl up today that I didn't know they are in shock that I pick em up like that.

What's your definition of "getting laid like crazy?" And what social circle situation are they in?

- Hector

 

[Sub-Zero]

Yeah I understand the 100 approaching part, but there are regular guys out there getting laid like crazy, that is what makes me annoyed. They are not cold approaching.

I will stop complaining about it, but these regular dudes are not cold approaching because when I tell them I picked a girl up today that I didn't know they are in shock that I pick em up like that.

What's your definition of "getting laid like crazy?" And what social circle situation are they in?

- Hector

Fucking a hand full of girls in the same room, parties, college or club.

I don't mean to complain, but I know cold approach is not the only way to get laid. It's just something I have not figured out yet.

 

[Chase]

Sub-Zero-

New post - relevant to / inspired by the discussion here:

How Naturals Meet Girls and Get Laid

Chase

 

[Lawliet]

Sub-Zero-

New post - relevant to / inspired by the discussion here:

How Naturals Meet Girls and Get Laid

Chase

S***....read the part about approaching grandmas and flirting brings me the bad memories... *shiver*
She was happy though

Lawliet

 

[Sub-Zero]

Sub-Zero-

New post - relevant to / inspired by the discussion here:

How Naturals Meet Girls and Get Laid

Chase

Great article Chase, makes a lot more sense now. I feel it would be easier for me to cold approach if I was just talking to everyone casual instead of just one cute girl I see with the weight on my shoulders to try and pick her up.

Now when you say flirt with all girls, no matter if they're fat, old, etc, how do you flirt under the radar and what are the benefits of flirting with girls you do not find attractive at all?

When I flirt I am sexual; that is why I don't flirt with anyone that I am not attracted to. What kind of flirting is that?

Can I get lays off of this style if I have to train myself to be more social?

How do these guys get these girls into consistent lays if they are not as focused as we are?

 

[ProblemSolving]

Pretty much every "natural" I've known or heard about have one thing in common - they are exposed to a lot of girls. They are often bartenders, servers, frat guys, run fitness classes etc. Basically they are exposed to girls all the time which makes it easy for the interested ones to reveal themselves. It's like a fisherman fishing in a stream so packed with fish that all he needs to do is throw a rock in the stream to come out with fish. Very easy, but you're dependent on your job or hobby for access to chicks.

 

[lux7]

Naturals are also physically attractive many times and have an attractive personality, which means:

Friends will like him, colleagues, friends of friends, friends of colleagues, other gym attendees, other language course attendees, loads of Tinder matches etc. etc.

I can see my new friend and colleagues.

My question on the article / remedy proposed though is:

Don't you think, that by being so social you might lose a bit of your mystique?

As de facto, you become a very social guy.
A "chatty" guy, and very chatty guy have, on average, a harder time at also being very sexy.. ?

 

[Edd--19]

Basically I flirt with old ladies almost exactly like I flirt with young hot girls. If you don't know how to flirt like this and make everyone around you feel good, I suggest learning, it's much fun. If a young hot girl hears me flirting with an old lady like that she's instantly turned on because she knows I have a great personality and it's not just my "game" that's attractive, it's me who is attractive.

Also, when it's time to flirt with a hot girl, you're totally warmed up and have that playful banter on the tip of your tongue.

Radeng

I'm going to take this advice and give it a whirl. Why not? Sounds like fun!