Hi guys, so i recently went on a tinder date with a girl who met me at my college. it was moderately interesting, we had lunch for 20 minutes, walked around for a bit, then sat down right outside my dorm. i asked her if she wanted to go up, and she hesitantly said yes, and we went up. I was non-pushy. when we walked inside my dorm she seemed hesitant and after standing up for a while she said she had to go.
When i walked her out, she asked if she would see me again. I avoided the question because I wasn't that interested in seeing her again, but I would have hooked up with her if she wanted to.
What I'm wondering is how I might increase my chance of getting to the kissing stage once she's inside my room. I have a sense that part of the reason she left was not because of how i was in the room, but rather how the entire date went up until that point. I thought she enjoyed it, but i guess she wasn't down to do anything more.
Any thoughts?
When i walked her out, she asked if she would see me again. I avoided the question because I wasn't that interested in seeing her again, but I would have hooked up with her if she wanted to.
What I'm wondering is how I might increase my chance of getting to the kissing stage once she's inside my room. I have a sense that part of the reason she left was not because of how i was in the room, but rather how the entire date went up until that point. I thought she enjoyed it, but i guess she wasn't down to do anything more.
Any thoughts?