Going out with a work colleague...

[adi13]

Hi,
It took a few days of thinking to write this "dumb" question but here it is:

I have a work colleague, in my team, pretty hot. We've bee flirting for a long time but I was keep putting her aside since I was in a serious relationship. We have a natural chemistry, so I'm not going to lie here that I don't like her, because I do.
Now the relationship ended but the flirting never stopped especially from her side, it even increased. She even told me that I should invite her to a walk in the park.
The thing is, I wan to take her home, but I don't want to have a serious relationship with her, and that is what she is expecting from what I can tell by her personality.

Should I engage or not?

Because if I take her home and nothing happens after, I might brake the relations in the office with the other people (if she says something).
If you had this kind of situation any advice will be more than welcome.

 

[Fuck This]

Crappy career move....

 

[adi13]

Yep, you are right; nice animation tough.

Much appresh

 

[ramshead]

It’s true don’t eat we’re you shit. If you want a romantic relationship. But I’m in your same situation and I’m having sex with 3 coworkers. I speak to everyone the same so not to make it obvious. 1 girl did try to make it more of a serious but I slowly stopped seeing her and she got the clue and we are fuck buddies. Just make it clear that it’s only friends with benefits. And if any drama occurs slowly push it to friends only. I was given this advice from a gc veteran and it worked.

 

[adi13]

I took home other colleagues form the campus, a lot I could say, but they were not on my floor, so it was very easy. I was thinking yesterday about the things you said, but I doubt she will go with it because I know her.
I could try telling her, but that's logic. Today she invited me to her parents for Christmas, then she kinda proposed I took her to my parents too. As you can see she is thinking serious about this, and damn she looks good, I don't to waste her .