Going to her place

[Red]

Couple times now I've been at the point of no return with a woman while in the city (I live in the burbs) and going.to her place is the only way the logistics will work, however just inviting myself to her place doesn't really seem....smooth. I've already lost two extremely hot women cause of this. Any tips on guiding her towards an invite to her place?

 

[HoofHearted]

Nah it's fine.

Just one more thing you're less in control of, though.

"I could come over for a nightcap..."

"Any snacks? I'm hungry."

It gets even easier if you make people horny. Beware, though, you might have to have sex first before you get your snack

 

[Red]

That's not being a good hostess!

 

[KJ Francis]

Last night I asked to meet her dog! It worked.

For sure if the temperature is hot, you want to make her a little horny and pull.

If the date is coming to a close and it's a now or never moment... And especially if I have not been sexual enough (a balance I'm still working on), I find it fun to invite myself over, even if there is no sexual tension. It gives her a little jolt and adds the sexual frame (cause hopefully she is not totally stupid), but if the vibe is like a natural "no big deal" next step, you are less in "I can't" or "I'm not ready" territory than "sure, why not" territory.

 

[DonGately]

Invite yourself over, kiss her, tell her you'd love to see her place [great deniability for her hamster there], say you'll drop her off and then ask to use restroom, etc. Definitely not hard.