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Lucky8ball

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I was walking around university earlier and saw a cute blonde from behind and went over to approach.

Tapped her shoulder from behind, smiled and extended my hand.
Me: Hi
Her: ...[takes earbuds out]??
Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: You looked beautiful today and I had to come say hi
Her: Thank you!
We get to talking about where she is from, make her laugh a little and pretty quickly I ask if she is free to go out sometime on sunday night, she said yes and she gave me her phone number. I realized we were walking in the same direction and the vibe was good so I kept talking with her, just kind of casually.
I can't really remember the specific dialogue but she was laughing throughout, and we talked a little about her job, her family and how she likes university.
I guess looking back I didn't really relate to well except about where she came from and her job. I gotta work on realting/connecting more throughout the convo.

*At the end of the walk I told her I had to go, I'd text her later, and then I wanted to do something kind of random just to see what would happen and I
put my arm around her shoulder and kissed her cheek and told her to go get'em tiger lol and we parted ways.

So then I texted her a few hours later
Me: Hey ----, it was fun meeting you earlier ;), its ----.
Her: Leave me alone

I was planning on just leaving it be and deleting her from my phone, lol. Any feedback on if or how I can turn this one around?
 

Ross

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Perhaps text her back a, "?" for clarification?

Hard to tell on this one. She may have been uncomfortable with the send off.
 

Sophisticated Gent

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From what you described it sounds to me like may have came off as being brotherly. If she is attracted to you and you act like her brother then she may think you are not sexually attracted to her. This could piss her off. Did you give any sexual vibe during the conversation other than the opener? It sounds like you will have a tough time getting out of this. You can next her or give it one last try. The last try could be another text that totally ignores her last text like you didn't get it. Text that you want to meet on Sunday at such as such a place and time for your date. Then add something mildly sexual to let her know how you see her. For example.

Hey ... Can you make our date on Sunday? We can meet at the coffee shop at 4:00 pm. I can't wait to look into you smoldering eyes again. (make this part personal based on what you liked about her that turned you on. Of course don't be crude by mentioning body parts.)

This lets her know it is a date and you are attracted to her.

Somebody else might have a different interpretation of what went wrong. Anyone else?

BDSC
 
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Lucky8ball

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Thanks guys,

Just went with a '??' to see what might happen, she didn't reply lol. oh well.
 
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