Good/Fun locations/activities for a date?

[RAFox]

Hey there,

Does anybody have any tips where to go out on a date?
As a beginner, I just can‘t seem to figure out nice, fun dating locations and activities for the girl to really enjoy herself while still maintaining Chase‘s “5 C‘s“.

Can you please help me out here?
Oh, and it‘s for long-term dating, not one-night-stands. I really want to do stuff with girls that they will remember....

 

[Ross]

Hey RAFox,

This is often a question that plagues beginners. It's ingrained in us by society that men are supposed to be the ones that take women out on extravagant dates that they will remember and cherish for the rest of their lives. The truth?

Good people make memories. Not good places. And if she remembers the place? It's most likely that she won't remember you as much as the location. So make the date about the both of you, instead of an activity. Ingrain memories of her doing things with you. And what's the thing that plants the most lasting impression on a woman?

Sex. It's the most intimate physical connection that you can have with a woman. Quickly influence her to experience a rush of emotions by being the sexiest and most suave man you can be. Sleep with her when an escalation window is up. The most important part of a relationship is the start.

Sleeping with her as fast as you can is going to be the guaranteed way to having her as your girlfriend as fast as you can, rather than waiting around and being her texting buddy for a few months. Once you sleep with her and rock her world, the transition to a relationship will be very easy. So really want to do something they remember? Learn some sexual technique and use it to build that connection strong from the start.

And, to answer the question, "Well, that's great and all, but where do I take her on a date?"

The place that has the best logistics for the both of you. This means nearby your apartment/house. Somewhere where you won't get caught up in an activity, and you can focus on yourself. Once that lasting impression is upon her, then you can go to places with her that you'll both enjoy and experience together. Some good examples are:

- Coffee Shop
- Lunch
- Dinner (Not fancy or out of your way)
- Dinner at your apartment/house (Best option, allows for fastest escalation. Preferably have sex before dinner )
- Anywhere nearby that won't suck up a lot of time and allows you to build a fast connection by deep diving.

 

[dvjackson]

hiking, frisbee golf, musem, go-kart racing, picnic, dance class, see a play, miniature golf, breakfast, water park, laser tag, firing range, ice skating, open mic

 

[RAFox]

Thanks guys. Love this place.
Others can still reply!

 

[Little Jester]

Whenever a girl is talking videogames, and funny enough those younger ones do quite often, I always like to bring up the "Why don't you come over to my place some time, so we can empty a bottle of wine and you can kick my ass at pac-man" kind of date. Personal favorite! Sadly only situational, since there are a lot of anti video game women out there too

As for date ideas I'd look at places and see how you can interact with your girl there and see if this is the kind of interaction you like to work with. By example, I know guys who love to take girls out to dance a little in not too crowded places, with the objective in mind to get very physical quickly. Given these guys took dancing classes and know how to lead and get physical with a lady quickly in a seductive manner on the dance floor.

I refuse to dance myself. So I used to get me and her sitting in front of each other, so I could work on eye contact and stuff. So that included a lot of those catching a drink at a table in a restaurant dates and stuff. This is relying on a meaningful and fun conversation though. Now personally I'm okay with that, but thinking back now, I found those to be rather boring dates, but that's probably because I found getting physical fast works in favor.

So lately I've started to include places like benches out in a park or nature when out for a walk. If I do am out for a drink in public, I love those lounche areas at club/cafe/bar areas, where you can sit next to each other. And the couch back in my home is the most favorite place to go (be it for pac-man or a movie). Also I know when a bus ride back to my place isn't crowded, which is also awesome to include when you have to move and both don't have a car that is (and I don't)

Sitting next to each other is awesome. Or well, it works in my favor at least (legs touching early, easy to hug her, rub her, etc.)

 

[PrettyDecent]

Howdy RAFox, your locations look pretty good.

Ross summed it up well. The most exciting thing that should happen on the date is you. Either way, it's hard for a girl to feel you "get her" if she hasn't said much about herself due to attention on the activity. So if you want to do something fun, make sure you get some deep diving in before the activity, and make sure there is a lot of touch during whatever you decide to do

 

[RAFox]

Thank you guys...so much.
This plave already feels like a family to me...(teardrop rolling down cheek)