Hey RAFox,
This is often a question that plagues beginners. It's ingrained in us by society that men are supposed to be the ones that take women out on extravagant dates that they will remember and cherish for the rest of their lives. The truth?
Good people make memories. Not good places. And if she remembers the place? It's most likely that she won't remember you as much as the location. So make the date about the both of you, instead of an activity. Ingrain memories of her doing things with you. And what's the thing that plants the most lasting impression on a woman?
Sex. It's the most intimate physical connection that you can have with a woman. Quickly influence her to experience a rush of emotions by being the sexiest and most suave man you can be. Sleep with her when an escalation window is up. The most important part of a relationship is the start.
Sleeping with her as fast as you can is going to be the guaranteed way to having her as your girlfriend as fast as you can, rather than waiting around and being her texting buddy for a few months. Once you sleep with her and rock her world, the transition to a relationship will be very easy. So really want to do something they remember? Learn some sexual technique and use it to build that connection strong from the start.
And, to answer the question, "Well, that's great and all, but where do I take her on a date?"
The place that has the best logistics for the both of you. This means nearby your apartment/house. Somewhere where you won't get caught up in an activity, and you can focus on yourself. Once that lasting impression is upon her, then you can go to places with her that you'll both enjoy and experience together. Some good examples are:
- Coffee Shop
- Lunch
- Dinner (Not fancy or out of your way)
- Dinner at your apartment/house (Best option, allows for fastest escalation. Preferably have sex before dinner
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- Anywhere nearby that won't suck up a lot of time and allows you to build a fast connection by deep diving.
