Hello,
I'm wondering if I screened a woman well for LTR. She was resistant to kissing still after 4 dates (i know, shoulda moved faster) but i managed to build enough comfort for her to open up.
She told me that her heart is not fully free yet after last relationship (which was affair at work- she didn't have partner at that time. After some time she ended it. However she bounced back few times, so imo she didn't close that topic.
My reasoning is that she had such a emotional rollercoaster with that guy that she is not ready for a quality LTR yet (and maybe never will be, alpha-widow?)
We made out afterwards so i suppose that she's kinda conflicted about past with him vs. future with me. I gracefully screened her out after one more date.
wwyd? Would it be enough if she changes her workplace and starts sleeping with me or juice (LTR) is not worth the squeeze?
Sorry for my english and many thanks to Chase and this community for creating such a great bank of knowledge.
I'm wondering if I screened a woman well for LTR. She was resistant to kissing still after 4 dates (i know, shoulda moved faster) but i managed to build enough comfort for her to open up.
She told me that her heart is not fully free yet after last relationship (which was affair at work- she didn't have partner at that time. After some time she ended it. However she bounced back few times, so imo she didn't close that topic.
My reasoning is that she had such a emotional rollercoaster with that guy that she is not ready for a quality LTR yet (and maybe never will be, alpha-widow?)
We made out afterwards so i suppose that she's kinda conflicted about past with him vs. future with me. I gracefully screened her out after one more date.
wwyd? Would it be enough if she changes her workplace and starts sleeping with me or juice (LTR) is not worth the squeeze?
Sorry for my english and many thanks to Chase and this community for creating such a great bank of knowledge.
