Got distracted by his wing and his friend stole the girl from me

[Igor]

Last night I spoke to a women, she was standing alone outside the bar on the streetside. I decided to open her because her female friend was on the phone and I was waiting for a cab. While I spoke to her, she was very receptive and we had a good conversation, until I got approached by a guy who came to us asking where I was from. I answered to him, but during my interaction with him (he kept asking questions), his friend came from the other side and started to talk to her. I wanted to quit my conversation with him, but his friend was already talking with her now.

What would you do in such situation? I really feel gamed now.

I exchanged instagram with the guy who opened me and it looks that they are both PUA dudes.

 

[Igor]

I saw these 2 dude talking with other girls before and I didn't interrupt them, so I cannot understand why they interfered in my game? First I was thinking, this was soo stupid of me not handling the situation well.

I'm a short 5'5 asian and they were a head taller but they interrupted in a friendly way so I decided to act nice but now it turns out I was shooting in my own foot. Now I'm realizing that if you are too kind, you'll always lose but on the other hand I don't want to be a dick to people who are nice. For me as a person with ASD it is not always easy to see someones real motive.

To be honest I feel angry and frustrated now because this happens quite often to me but I want to stay positive and not focus too much about competition.

How would you get rid of them once they joined your set?

 

[Marcellus]

Just keep talking with the girl next time and pretend that guy isn't there.

 

[Lover]

Remember for another time: the girl probably felt left out when the first guy approached you and you started talking to him. And she probably felt that she wasn't as interesting as this guy since you kept talking to him. What else was she supposed to do once the second guy talked to her? She doesn't care if they planned this - only how it made her feel.

Maybe you can imagine it this way: you're talking to a girl, and another girl interrupts and talks to her only. They completely shut you out. But then by luck, another girl opens you and wants to know how your night is going. Which one do you want to talk to at this point? Probably the last one.

This is why you keep talking to a girl if you're interrupted - to not make her feel unimportant.