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Ola gents, I need some advice about the issue particularly if its salvageable or not. So i have been seeing choir girl from my journal for a while now i met her in late May and we genuinely hit it off i really liked her from the first time we met she was quite funny also like me lol.
We had our first meet in June before we left for our hometowns it was a walking meet and it was pretty nice and uhhm romantic ?lol anyway we had a makeout and we left for our homes.We were texting and calling a lot in June and late July and i invited her over immediately when we came back escalated quite well but when it came to me outing on a condom she just stopped me and i failed the escalation like that and a 2 hours later she left after i tried to re escalate.
I was bummed of course since failed escalations can be death but i talked to her after on whatsapp about the situation and she said she likes me a lot but she wants to know what i want from her and i fronted and said something casual but honestly i did like her so much i wouldnt really have minded dating her at the time so i lied about casual man and she shut off lol and almost ghosted me after but again i managed to get a meetup with her but it was like a week later from the failed escalation day due to busy schedules
we talk a bit i run it like an info date cause we only had like 40 mins to spare that day, its cool i deep dive,a little physical touch here and there we still have that romantic vibe cool we end it and few days after i invite her to my crib and she sleeps over this time.we cuddle and all that and she tells me all her concerns about how she thinks im just trying to accommodate her since she wants a relationship and i said i wanted something casual ,i tried to frame that sex is how to properly start a relationship and that i genuinely like her.
i escalate and she is super turned on but problem i go and get a condom and she changes her mind again brah and tells me how she doesn't want to do something she will regret and that she just had periods so we cant i try to push that period sex is cool but she refuses and we cuddle again and sleep again i wont lie throughout the night i was concerned that man this might be the last time i see her cause i fee like i had failed twice and she would not look at me the same as a man and i really like her gents,so in the morning right as we still cuddled
we were talking about something and she referred to me as her boyfriend and i didn't disagree with her statement cause well the escalation was fucked and i figured well agreeing to this would extend my chances and time (Again i would have loved to be her boyfriend anyway)we kiss and she leaves and checks up on me later
So the following week i was writing and she was running for student leadership and all that so we were busy and she asked for manifesto advice,i gave it to her since i was a student leader before who won these titles so yeah,i mean i did show off all my attractive qualities and she did admire me in a way for my leadership experience and she was also helping out with a business i run mainly with promotion and so yeah it was very cool gents i wont lie
okay she comes back to my place for the third time and i tell myself you know what even if i fuck raw it doesnt matter, i escalate and she tells me to put on a condom and im like yeah tonight is it.I had it in my pocket this time and put it got inside her first stroke she pushed me out a bit gently though and i got out. I kiss her again but the moment deflates and we ultimately stop but i give her a massage and she gets turned on again and i go doggy this time but idk what happened i couldnt get it in at all that pussy felt so tight bros like after trying she was joked about that beyonce song how its too big and too much and she was like lets just sleep and we did.
In the morning i make her some breakfast and she cleans my room entirely in the meantime,makes up the bed and all that. We go try again later in the afternoon 2 oclock i remember well and everything was going fine and i fucked her raw though cause i didn't want
to ruin the mood but she told me not to nut inside before , the thing is right i had never gone raw before and well i came inside her but after that she became so stressed ,so i told her that okay lets go and get some plan B,s and i paid for it and she took em
She said she was really angry at me but we were still cool and she was still referring me as her boyfriend (I thought i would get ghosted immediately after all that)as she once blocked me before after the whole casual intentions thing. We spoke after that day and she continued supporting my business and all that ,everything was fine but she told me the more she thinks about the situation the more she got angry at me and she told me all of her concerns as she won student leadership and a possible pregnancy might affect her future really badly and she told me she was crying and i didnt know how to properly handle that i just told her the facts about plan b and how we are basically safe but that didnt seem to help at all and she blocked me lol ,i called her and she unblocked me and told me she misses me.
She told me she was still angry at me.Okay a couple of days have gone by and we plan to meet but again schedules get mixed up and now she is taking some time to reply and i tell her its not cool that she took so much time because we do communicate if we gonna get busy instead of just just keeping quiet and i just get a message saying she is on her periods and there is no reason for me to talk to her now and that she is deleting my number and blocking me and that i must not even try to call her because she will block my number.
Its been 4 days since that happened and i have really done anything but get really busy with work and seeing other girls ,i was seeing other girls before she gave up the coochie but still gents i do like her so much and i do have a problem with conversion a bit as after i sleep witha girl for the first time i do end up not seeing them again due to various well msotly auto rejection of course bit thats a story for another day
So what im basically asking is can i salvage this situation ?and if i cant i do plan on going out and getting more women test weeks are over and i do have more free time to do that but i do feel like she really did like me and it would not just go up in the air easily like that , i would appreciate all yall advice gents.
We had our first meet in June before we left for our hometowns it was a walking meet and it was pretty nice and uhhm romantic ?lol anyway we had a makeout and we left for our homes.We were texting and calling a lot in June and late July and i invited her over immediately when we came back escalated quite well but when it came to me outing on a condom she just stopped me and i failed the escalation like that and a 2 hours later she left after i tried to re escalate.
I was bummed of course since failed escalations can be death but i talked to her after on whatsapp about the situation and she said she likes me a lot but she wants to know what i want from her and i fronted and said something casual but honestly i did like her so much i wouldnt really have minded dating her at the time so i lied about casual man and she shut off lol and almost ghosted me after but again i managed to get a meetup with her but it was like a week later from the failed escalation day due to busy schedules
we talk a bit i run it like an info date cause we only had like 40 mins to spare that day, its cool i deep dive,a little physical touch here and there we still have that romantic vibe cool we end it and few days after i invite her to my crib and she sleeps over this time.we cuddle and all that and she tells me all her concerns about how she thinks im just trying to accommodate her since she wants a relationship and i said i wanted something casual ,i tried to frame that sex is how to properly start a relationship and that i genuinely like her.
i escalate and she is super turned on but problem i go and get a condom and she changes her mind again brah and tells me how she doesn't want to do something she will regret and that she just had periods so we cant i try to push that period sex is cool but she refuses and we cuddle again and sleep again i wont lie throughout the night i was concerned that man this might be the last time i see her cause i fee like i had failed twice and she would not look at me the same as a man and i really like her gents,so in the morning right as we still cuddled
we were talking about something and she referred to me as her boyfriend and i didn't disagree with her statement cause well the escalation was fucked and i figured well agreeing to this would extend my chances and time (Again i would have loved to be her boyfriend anyway)we kiss and she leaves and checks up on me later
So the following week i was writing and she was running for student leadership and all that so we were busy and she asked for manifesto advice,i gave it to her since i was a student leader before who won these titles so yeah,i mean i did show off all my attractive qualities and she did admire me in a way for my leadership experience and she was also helping out with a business i run mainly with promotion and so yeah it was very cool gents i wont lie
okay she comes back to my place for the third time and i tell myself you know what even if i fuck raw it doesnt matter, i escalate and she tells me to put on a condom and im like yeah tonight is it.I had it in my pocket this time and put it got inside her first stroke she pushed me out a bit gently though and i got out. I kiss her again but the moment deflates and we ultimately stop but i give her a massage and she gets turned on again and i go doggy this time but idk what happened i couldnt get it in at all that pussy felt so tight bros like after trying she was joked about that beyonce song how its too big and too much and she was like lets just sleep and we did.
In the morning i make her some breakfast and she cleans my room entirely in the meantime,makes up the bed and all that. We go try again later in the afternoon 2 oclock i remember well and everything was going fine and i fucked her raw though cause i didn't want
to ruin the mood but she told me not to nut inside before , the thing is right i had never gone raw before and well i came inside her but after that she became so stressed ,so i told her that okay lets go and get some plan B,s and i paid for it and she took em
She said she was really angry at me but we were still cool and she was still referring me as her boyfriend (I thought i would get ghosted immediately after all that)as she once blocked me before after the whole casual intentions thing. We spoke after that day and she continued supporting my business and all that ,everything was fine but she told me the more she thinks about the situation the more she got angry at me and she told me all of her concerns as she won student leadership and a possible pregnancy might affect her future really badly and she told me she was crying and i didnt know how to properly handle that i just told her the facts about plan b and how we are basically safe but that didnt seem to help at all and she blocked me lol ,i called her and she unblocked me and told me she misses me.
She told me she was still angry at me.Okay a couple of days have gone by and we plan to meet but again schedules get mixed up and now she is taking some time to reply and i tell her its not cool that she took so much time because we do communicate if we gonna get busy instead of just just keeping quiet and i just get a message saying she is on her periods and there is no reason for me to talk to her now and that she is deleting my number and blocking me and that i must not even try to call her because she will block my number.
Its been 4 days since that happened and i have really done anything but get really busy with work and seeing other girls ,i was seeing other girls before she gave up the coochie but still gents i do like her so much and i do have a problem with conversion a bit as after i sleep witha girl for the first time i do end up not seeing them again due to various well msotly auto rejection of course bit thats a story for another day
So what im basically asking is can i salvage this situation ?and if i cant i do plan on going out and getting more women test weeks are over and i do have more free time to do that but i do feel like she really did like me and it would not just go up in the air easily like that , i would appreciate all yall advice gents.
