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Got girl to my place, but she left shortly after -- any ideas what happened?

perpetualsun

Space Monkey
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Hi everyone,

There's a girl I've been seeing for the past month, I originally met her on Tinder. Due to my schedule, I've only seen her for two times prior, both were dinner dates. After the first, she said she had to go home for work the next day, so that was a no-go for inviting her back (at least due to her). The second dinner date, I couldn't invite her to my place because I had stuff to do later in the evening. For the past two dates, she picked me up at my place. Finally, today, after a month of the first date, I had a dinner date with her again today. Then, afterwards we went for drinks. Then, I invited her up to my place when she drove me back. I got her to my place, and was talking to her, but within 10 minutes, she told me she had to wake up at 6 tomorrow and so she had to go. It seemed like everything was going well up to that point but I couldn't get in any physical intimacy with that short of a time period (10 minutes). She doesn't seem like the innocent type of girl, but I haven't been able to get a move on her because she acts very conservative. Also, she lives with her parents still (shes 25) and goes to work around 6-7 am everyday. Does anyone know if I should just drop her now or if I should try another date? Or what I did wrong? It seemed that she really didnt want to go up to my place and that even when we were there, she didnt want to enter my bedroom. Thanks!
 

Drck

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You are doing good, as long as she goes for dates and investing into you (e.g. picking you up and driving you) and you are somehow progressing you're ok. Just keep pushing forward. You got to get physical, use any opportunity you get, even before you get to your place.

Most likely you are beyond the "fast" seduction, e.g. 1-3 dates, which is fine. Just keep steadily pushing forward, be patient, don't give up. Try to move forward 1-2 steps each time you meet her, and (obviously) don't chase. Give her only 2 options: either sleep with you or break it up, don't accept the friend zone crap.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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