FR Got one number closed

[abhishek]

Stats:**

Age: 32

Race: Asian

Height: 5'11

Location: Mumbai, mall

Set

As soon as entered mall one set was carry 4 to 5 shopping bags opened her saying i think you have done hardest shopping of day it seems that you heading to some coffee shop or some restaurant to party with your friend. Set was shocked then i complimented her for looks. Then there was awkward silence she drifted away. That's 1st rejection.

Approached single set with white bag complimented her for bag she said thank you my mind blank could not think what to say next-lost this set.

Approached single set with designer bag complimented her for bag she said thank you same awkward silence could not think what to say next-lost this set.

Approached single set complimented her for fashion sense she said thank-you used profession stack got to know she is graphical designers but i could not speak on that topic-lost this set.

Approached double set complimented both of them they started laughing could not think what to say next-lost the set.

Approached single set complimented her that she look cute so i had to come and say Hi introduced myself got to know she is lawyer tease her saying where is your black coat further vibe with her for 5min then asked her for coffee at starbucks she wasn't ready asked her about weekend plan she said free on Sunday closed her number.
While she was saving her number on my phone asked her type her funny name given by me and also said i will be calling her for 10,000 times a day so keep your phone line active. my 1st number closed of day.

Approached single set complimented her for fashion sense she laughed and thank me used location stack and after that profession assumption stack got to know she work in IT related field then after mind went blank could not think what to say next awkward silence-lost this set.


Conclusion- 1. i feel really confident before to reaching pickup field, but when i start approach i really feel low value many thoughts comes in my mind like its wrong no one do so i am only the creepiest guy.
2. Second thought will be regarding set will get offended so i should not use direct opener.
Before approaching i become nervous and same state is transferred to set.
3. My mind becomes blank after opener don't understand what should i say next.

 

[HammerEditor]

This was pretty much how my first ten approaches went. I had trouble having conversations over 30 seconds, just like you.

But now, after having done 70 sets, I have no trouble talking for even an hour to a girl. It actually gets easier after the first 5 minutes of small talk. As an introvert, I'm really good at deeper level conversation and building an emotional connection.

In fact, I talk too much and don't allow the girl to invest. So I'm working on slowing down, making my eye contact more seductive, building sexual tension and instigating more.

 

[abhishek]

Thank you Hammereditor i have also crossed 70 approaches but no improvement i am still afraid and AA kicks in.
I am curious to know what do u speak after opener i start asking her profession, how is your structure of conversation.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

Thank you Hammereditor i have also crossed 70 approaches but no improvement i am still afraid and AA kicks in.
I am curious to know what do u speak after opener i start asking her profession, how is your structure of conversation.

all of the conclusions that you had are conclusions that I had when I was in my first 20 approaches. The mind blanking, the belief that you are a creep, the belief that you will offend her, and the nervousness start to go away the more consistent that you are with it. If you stay on this path a little longer something good will happen: you will start naturally approaching girls throughout your day. That’s what happened to me at least. Keep on going, good things are on the horizon!

 

[abhishek]

Thank you. Yes consistence is key i will try to adjust my schedule.