Hi guys, I've recently noticed that a lot of girls now put "not looking for a hookup" in their online dating profile (Tinder/Bumble). Usually this doesn't bother me, I think there might be another post about it around here somewhere. However, I have recently been talking to girls that don't have this in their profile and somewhere along our text convo they will offer the info themselves that they aren't a hookup seeker or aren't looking to just hookup. Usually I'll try to be playful about it and say something like "thats cool, i'm good with just a makeout but you will be hard-pressed to get anything more 
" , or even something like "I need to be fine wine and dined and require 5 dates to sleep with someone". Sort of flipping the switch. Or other times I'll just be more direct and say I'm just looking for fun and see where it goes.
Just wondering how other guys handle this? I know some girls just say this but I still can never tell if its truthful or not. I know most girls don't know what they want or a lot can change when you actually get them on a date.
" , or even something like "I need to be fine wine and dined and require 5 dates to sleep with someone". Sort of flipping the switch. Or other times I'll just be more direct and say I'm just looking for fun and see where it goes.Just wondering how other guys handle this? I know some girls just say this but I still can never tell if its truthful or not. I know most girls don't know what they want or a lot can change when you actually get them on a date.
