This is something I hear every now and then among my guy friends.
Guy A: "My girlfriend and I got in a fight last night. *lays out sound reasons for why he is right*"
Guy B: "You got to understand... the guy is always wrong. She is always right even if she's not. Just say sorry and move on."
I just don't like this mentality or this kind of relationship, even though it's a running gag in comedy.
In my early relationships, I was the "martyr" (like most men). Even if i was right, I would apologize and say "sorry" and try to keep the relationship smooth -- afloat like a captain saving a sinking ship.
Now, if me and a girlfriend get in an argument, I try to smooth it out of course. Talk through it. Then move to a lighter topic. However, this just isn't always the case. Sometimes, the argument will blow up, and she'll just stay in the emotional hurricane without being able to move on. So, I just give her space and then talk with her again in a couple of days. I don't apologize though if I'm actually right.
What do you guys do?
Guy A: "My girlfriend and I got in a fight last night. *lays out sound reasons for why he is right*"
Guy B: "You got to understand... the guy is always wrong. She is always right even if she's not. Just say sorry and move on."
I just don't like this mentality or this kind of relationship, even though it's a running gag in comedy.
In my early relationships, I was the "martyr" (like most men). Even if i was right, I would apologize and say "sorry" and try to keep the relationship smooth -- afloat like a captain saving a sinking ship.
Now, if me and a girlfriend get in an argument, I try to smooth it out of course. Talk through it. Then move to a lighter topic. However, this just isn't always the case. Sometimes, the argument will blow up, and she'll just stay in the emotional hurricane without being able to move on. So, I just give her space and then talk with her again in a couple of days. I don't apologize though if I'm actually right.
What do you guys do?