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This is a continuation of the report that I had written here... https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=7227
So pretty much I hadn’t seen this girl for a couple of months. Haven’t seen her or my friend Danny in a few months actually (again talked about in this report https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=7227 ; how do you link a single word, anyone know lol?). So my friend’s been gone because he has a girlfriend who he's been living some 50 miles away. This girl’s been gone because she’s been going to a gym in a neighboring city (but will be starting to go to the one in this city again).
To be honest, I’m quite surprised that this worked out well (so far at least). This was at the gym, and today my workout and the pickup had just been a hard grind like didn’t feel natural or comfortable at all. Was a grind but got thorough it.
I saw her once or twice peripherally but don’t think that she noticed me… I got to go talk to her when she went to the ab benches.
We have two benches for abs at our gym next to each other… they're pretty close to each other, so it just like makes for an intimate conversation when you're talking to the person next to you.
My fundamentals and process were decent throughout this again I think that the only problem had been that I wasn’t really in state, but did most of the things in general correctly anyway (big thing that’s been helping me lately is remembering to deliberately be a bit bored and disinterested … has helped with my interactions of new approaches).
We laugh, it’s all light hearted and stuff
Pause…
I forget what she says here but rest is chill mostly… I deep dive her here and do it properly and find out a lot about her, she warms up and opens up and hooks fairly well (she wants to travel, and works at a local restaurant on weekdays and stopped what she had been doing before that, and is gonna go to school but has other ambitions and dreams that I find out from her).
Age
When I've started deep diving her she begins to smile and hook she starts to ask me more questions The question of age comes up (she’s forgotten from the last report!
She tells me she’s 27 … she was 28 in the last report so I guess she had a reverse birthday or something lol
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She mentions at some point that she’s seeing a guy but is frustrated that he’s like protective and controlling and checks her phone and shit…
I relate that I had dated girls that were like that and that had been why I got rid of my facebook and stuff
Getting the number
This was like after 10 minutes of talking
During this she was lying on her back on the bench and I was sitting on it casually like I would on my bed, pretty chill environment and best place to pickup a girl in gym and have a moment with her (lying down together on ab mats or benches lol) . It’s intimate and nice and I like it… I notice subtle hidden tattoos of hers on like her neck and wrist and stuff that I wouldn’t have noticed without being so close to her (and hadn’t noticed first time around).
We talk a tiny bit more and then I tell her I gotta go
I go to get water before I leave and she’s walking the same way
Stop following me (I tell her)! Lol we have like a cool last moment together and hold eyes smiling for a couple seconds before going our separate ways
I go and check my phone later and my phone was off and I’m like fucking shit fuck and curse and yell a bit! But laugh thinking whatever’s because can just get her number and set something up next time I see her or if she happens to text me within that time.
Honestly idk what’ll happen with this one because I did ok and showed up and reestablished myself well to her … but she’s experienced and stuff too so we’ll see how this goes in the days to come.
-Gem
So pretty much I hadn’t seen this girl for a couple of months. Haven’t seen her or my friend Danny in a few months actually (again talked about in this report https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=7227 ; how do you link a single word, anyone know lol?). So my friend’s been gone because he has a girlfriend who he's been living some 50 miles away. This girl’s been gone because she’s been going to a gym in a neighboring city (but will be starting to go to the one in this city again).
To be honest, I’m quite surprised that this worked out well (so far at least). This was at the gym, and today my workout and the pickup had just been a hard grind like didn’t feel natural or comfortable at all. Was a grind but got thorough it.
I saw her once or twice peripherally but don’t think that she noticed me… I got to go talk to her when she went to the ab benches.
We have two benches for abs at our gym next to each other… they're pretty close to each other, so it just like makes for an intimate conversation when you're talking to the person next to you.
My fundamentals and process were decent throughout this again I think that the only problem had been that I wasn’t really in state, but did most of the things in general correctly anyway (big thing that’s been helping me lately is remembering to deliberately be a bit bored and disinterested … has helped with my interactions of new approaches).
We banter on for a bit …pretty much I do well where I had fucked up in the last report (i.e. following process and not getting intimidated about her looks … oh it’s worth mentioning she was wearing like a top and booty shorts like pretty flashy clothes and you can see her whole middle and cleavage and stuff; she had a nice body but not as super tight as a girl who’s a regular)
We laugh, it’s all light hearted and stuff
Pause…
I forget what she says here but rest is chill mostly… I deep dive her here and do it properly and find out a lot about her, she warms up and opens up and hooks fairly well (she wants to travel, and works at a local restaurant on weekdays and stopped what she had been doing before that, and is gonna go to school but has other ambitions and dreams that I find out from her).
Age
When I've started deep diving her she begins to smile and hook she starts to ask me more questions The question of age comes up (she’s forgotten from the last report!
She tells me she’s 27 … she was 28 in the last report so I guess she had a reverse birthday or something lol
…………
She mentions at some point that she’s seeing a guy but is frustrated that he’s like protective and controlling and checks her phone and shit…
I relate that I had dated girls that were like that and that had been why I got rid of my facebook and stuff
Getting the number
This was like after 10 minutes of talking
During this she was lying on her back on the bench and I was sitting on it casually like I would on my bed, pretty chill environment and best place to pickup a girl in gym and have a moment with her (lying down together on ab mats or benches lol) . It’s intimate and nice and I like it… I notice subtle hidden tattoos of hers on like her neck and wrist and stuff that I wouldn’t have noticed without being so close to her (and hadn’t noticed first time around).
We talk a tiny bit more and then I tell her I gotta go
I go to get water before I leave and she’s walking the same way
Stop following me (I tell her)! Lol we have like a cool last moment together and hold eyes smiling for a couple seconds before going our separate ways
I go and check my phone later and my phone was off and I’m like fucking shit fuck and curse and yell a bit! But laugh thinking whatever’s because can just get her number and set something up next time I see her or if she happens to text me within that time.
Honestly idk what’ll happen with this one because I did ok and showed up and reestablished myself well to her … but she’s experienced and stuff too so we’ll see how this goes in the days to come.
-Gem
