Date Plans "Haha, yeahhh, but it will have to be with my friend :D"

[Rakkum]

Usually i'm very much against girls bringing friends on dates because it makes it social and not sexual.

To some extent, this depends on the situation and on the cultural backdrop.

I street stopped this chick in Colombia this spring. Texted next day and agreed to meet up later in the evening. She brought a (girl)friend. At first, I was a bit miffed about it. Then again, when I hung out with them a bit, it made perfect sense from her point of view. They are more social there, Cali has a bad history of violence and I could I really have expected for her to be completely sold on me after a two minute interaction.

We hung out at a bar, I made sure to make them both feel good the best I can. The friend wasn't super good looking but one of their guy colleagues called her or something and they were discussing it. I asked whether that guy has a crush on her or something. It was flattering to her and put me in her good graces so no cockblocking. We later went for some food and the friend ejected after that. I did some mistakes later on that evening but managed to get the lay the next night.

In short, context matters.

EDIT:

Messaged her "Yes good to have her with us so you don't start tearing at my shirt suddenly *park* tomorrow at 1 pm on three wheels?"

I don't know how this feels in Danish but could have been that you were pushing it a bit a too much. Maybe being a bit more laid back and cool with her bringing her friend would have worked better. But, as always, there could be a ton of other reasons why she didn't bite.

 

[Skills]

Messaged her "Yes good to have her with us so you don't start tearing at my shirt suddenly *park* tomorrow at 1 pm on three wheels?"

I usually play stupid and say "but i am not into 3 somes anymore, sorry, but if you insist, ok bring her then"

 

[Skills]

This comes to mind

well that was a hail marry with red is flight or fly.... get me like last ditch effort (since reds are lost kind of anyways..) you could have tried...

 

[Skjöldr]

I messaged her:

Yes it's a bit rough. I think you seemed interesting and it couldve been cool to get to know eachother better and see if we clicked but it takes two to tango We should only meet if you want to

And i got back

I actually would have liked to try to meet, it is only the time that holds me back .. We would like to see some things and we do not have much time to run on unfortunately .. Think it was super fresh of you to just run over to me, so it could have been fun if we had time to meet
Can see you have tried to call, my phone was on dont disturb because I had gone to bed, so have not heard it at all

I sent back

Ah okay there is not much to do about that, wish I could do magic and extend weekends, I could well use that not just this time Yes I do not use tinder and all that (James Tusk DHV), so I just go for it when I see something I think looks interesting and investigate it further

What are you going to do here today?

I'm just gonna switch the subject and message her a bit back and forth and try for a phone call tomorrow evening, build more value and comfort and try getting her to visit again. She's a hot girl so she might just go pffffft i get enough dick in my hometown but whatever that's my strategy