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Handling Group Dynamics in Daygame

Astigmatic20

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I just approached this girl during an international law student forum awhile ago after being so nervous for most of the time. I even did pushups outside the venue in a hidden location just to lessen the anxiety. She was from Laos and with a group of friends.

I knew that I couldn't deliver a direct opener while she was in front of them so I went up to her in the group and told her, "Can I have a moment with you?" She complied and we went to an isolated table where I delivered it, "I just noticed you during the forum and I just thought you looked very cute so I wanted come up to you and talk to you." Then, she smiled and said thank you in a giddy voice! I did the attraction phase and she gave me the hook point so I made some rapport. However, I noticed that she was nervous so I asked her "Why are you so nervous?" She replied that, "I feel like my friends are watching me." I said, "Well, you shouldn't care much what they think and I just do stuff that I feel is right." She asked me if I wanted to meet her friends but I knew it was a shit test so I told her that I already met them awhile ago.

She said something in her foreign language to her friend and the latter came to our table. I greeted her and talked with her for awhile. However, I tried to maneuver the conversation back to my set but the cockblock lines I knew like "Your friend here seems to want to end our chat." work in a club. After a couple of minutes, she said that they have to go somewhere. Though, I knew from the start that it was a cockblock move and her friend's purpose was to get her out of my set. I wasn't able to do a # close or a FB close since her friend came to our table before I could get it.Despite this, I felt like a boss to see that the girl was actually more nervous than me during the set. With lazer eye contact and cool & calm voice and demeanor, I felt like fucking Agent 007! I didn't even do kino and I knew she felt my presence.

Now here's my question, how do I handle group situations in daygame without cockblocks? I think my set was attracted & comfortable taking to me but her mindset of social pressure caused her to eject unfortunately. My goal is to approach a girl anywhere and anytime and hopefully more understanding group dynamics in the daytime will help me in this journey of mine.

Thanks guys!
 
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Richard

Tribal Elder
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Lately, I've been hearing a lot about handling a group, new theories opening up, old theories being thrown out. Chase has several articles on opening a group, but, I find the best way to be opening up the leader of the group. Open up the girl who is talking the most, and moving her hands the most. Get her acceptance before you go after the girl you actually think is cute. Give 70% of your attention to the girl you like, and 30% to the leader...

I was talking with Tool, and he suggested and alternate method that Mystery developed. Simply walk up to the group and say "So this is where the party's at?" And open the group from there.

-Richard
 
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