Hands-off 2nd date - Need advice

[Tigs]

Ok I'm a beginner - hence the beginners section and I need some help on with my next move (if there is one).

Long story short I met this girl a couple weeks ago at a birthday party and I was able to get her number and a first date.
She came to my house for the first date to watch a movie and I only went as far as some light kissing. (she gave me a huge opportunity when she stuck around after the movie but I'm a bit of a wuss and didn't capitalize)
2nd date was last night and although I thought I was gonna do better...we ended up doing nothing except some kino touching and conversation over beers, tacos and icecream. All in all I don't think it was a bad date but I didn't go in for the kiss because I was afraid.

I believe that she has plenty of interest in me and would go out on a third date, but I want to reframe myself as a sexy man and be ready to escalate as far as I can the next time.

My next text was gonna be something like "Hey thanks for the tacos last night. Sorry I withheld my goodnight kiss…I know you wanted it "

Shooting back with some reframing like "Your seduction skills were on point, especially with that cute workout outfit"

I appreciate any feedback that I can get on this. I know I need to work on some confidence issues and escalation. I wouldn't say I'm scared of losing this girl but I would like to see how far I can get and learn from it.

Thanks guys!

 

[Rasui]

Ok I'm a beginner - hence the beginners section and I need some help on with my next move (if there is one).

Long story short I met this girl a couple weeks ago at a birthday party and I was able to get her number and a first date.
She came to my house for the first date to watch a movie and I only went as far as some light kissing. (she gave me a huge opportunity when she stuck around after the movie but I'm a bit of a wuss and didn't capitalize)
2nd date was last night and although I thought I was gonna do better...we ended up doing nothing except some kino touching and conversation over beers, tacos and icecream. All in all I don't think it was a bad date but I didn't go in for the kiss because I was afraid.

You really needed to make a move when she came over the first time, you're aware of that and that's good. So now you need to be thinking of how you're going to be sure you do next time. I recommend Chases 10 minute rule. That being, no girl is allowed to be alone with you for more than 10 minutes without you at least trying to kiss her. You don't want a girl thinking "God! Why doesn't he just KISS ME! Doesn't he know I want him to!?!" do you?

My next text was gonna be something like "Hey thanks for the tacos last night. Sorry I withheld my goodnight kiss…I know you wanted it "

Don't say this, especially if you want to try to reframe as sexy. You don't want to draw attention to your mistakes, I find you pretty much never get points for this. Better to pretend it never happened and just make an attempt to get her out on a third date, use it for data points if nothing else. Also, check out Chases texting guide if you haven't already.

I appreciate any feedback that I can get on this. I know I need to work on some confidence issues and escalation. I wouldn't say I'm scared of losing this girl but I would like to see how far I can get and learn from it.

Thanks guys!

No problem man, just keep working on it and remember the motto around here is MOVE FASTER.

 

[Tigs]

You don't want a girl thinking "God! Why doesn't he just KISS ME! Doesn't he know I want him to!?!" do you?

Thanks for the reply! I'll have to internalize this the next time I'm trying to move faster. Might help me out.

Don't say this, especially if you want to try to reframe as sexy. You don't want to draw attention to your mistakes, I find you pretty much never get points for this. Better to pretend it never happened and just make an attempt to get her out on a third date, use it for data points if nothing else. Also, check out Chases texting guide if you haven't already.

Ok your right, I definitely don't want to bring attention to this. I was also thinking about commenting on her seduction skills combined with her outfit (she was wearing workout clothes -yoga pants and running shoes). Any advice on how to setup this sexual frame? I've read chase's article about this framing but I feel like if I start off too fast then she won't take it seriously.

 

[Tyme2k]

BRO! She came over with yoga pants INTERNALIZE THIS that means she wanted you to fuck her! I failed escalation on one of my hottest girls ever on the day 2, guess what day 3 she came over in yoga pants that way they were easy to get off. This was your cue to take her to bed.

You might get another chance, which would disprove Chase's theories. If you're lucky and she hasn't went into auto rejection you MIGHT get one more chance. Get her over to your place again and don't stop until you close or she says fuck off. Remember 2 steps forward one step back rule. No more than 10 minutes in your place. Get that shit done! We better see an LR or an FR++++++++ from this one!

Here is the LR Asian Ink

This one may also help to show how much you can get away with, 2.5 hours to close this girl insane LMR Cute Asian