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Hey all, this was unique. Working on shortening interactions as much as I can, but probably overshot (edit). The vibe was ON from the start, but she was playing hard to get. My voice and eye contact were on it and there was a lot of pausing and staring, and despite moving around a bit, had good proximity some of the time. I see her doing sled stuff and grab a cable to help her and march straight at her, almost staring her down (she's a bit exasperated):
Me: I have a suggestion *holds up the cable*...
Her: *eye fucking me instantly*
Me: This will help you pull the sled without hitting your chins.
Her: Ohh hi, thank you... How do you use it?
Me: *sets it up and demos it* Much easier... Are you pulling and pushing it?
Her: *staring at me* (I realize this also could be her being winded)
Me: I'll push it back to the start *does*
Her: *Still staring at me* (at this point it's beyond exasperation lol)
Me: (am close from moving the sled) *leans in closer* you know... You're cute... What's your name?
Me: What's your name?
Her: ___
Me: ... I'm ___ *handclasp*.... I can't tell, are you in college or highschool?
Her: College! I'm in college
Me: Where do you go?
Her: ___
Me: What're you studying
Her: I'm doing business, business and marketing?
Me: *pause and drawn out* Why?
Her: Because it's easy! *Laughs*
Me: You seem to be pretty out of air (pause)
Her: *agrees*
Me: (resumes) how about we hang out some time when we AREN'T exercising? (Probably not the best timing)
Her: Well, that depends!
Me: ...on what? *Skeptically/haughtily*
Her: How old are you?
Me: How old do you think I am? *Looks at her sexily/playfully*
Her: *giggles* ...late 20's
Me: Yeah, 29. That's surprising, usually people think I'm 23/24.
Her: I'm good at guessing ages
Me: Why? Do you have practice? *Sly smile*
Her: *laughs*
Me: How old are you?
Her: I'm 20.
Me: ahh that's older than my first girlfriend, you might be too old for me (not the greatest joke lol, had to backpedal a little)
Her: Younger than me? That could be concerning.
Me: Ehhh, I was 19 too
*Staring......*
Me: You should ask me something
Her: Hmmm, what do you do?
Me: I'm in tech... Let me grab your number (bit weak framing)
Her: Ohhh I don't give my number out easily.
Me: oh so you want to skip straight to hanging out? *Sly smile*
Her: *laughs* You can have my socials.
Me: ... I'm not a follower
Her: Oh that's too bad... Do you work here? (and as I was talking "I saw you over there talking to the front desk [lady])
Me: I might as well haha, I workout about 80 minutes, then talk as long. Other than the gym I'm just working mostly alone.
Her: *Ohh* (switched to a workout question) What do I do with the cables if I'm going the other way?
Me: Ahh, just put them up like *this* unless you want to walk back in between *teasingly*
*Pause*
Me: Lets do this, I'll give you my number and when you change your mind, you can reach out
Her: Oh so now we're doing you giving me your number?
Me: ...we could do either way (should've held one line, not flip-flopped)...
It just kind of ended I'm a stare off lol
Me: It was nice meeting you___... *Stares at her skeptically* remember mine?
Her: ___ * with cutesy attitude*
And I stroll off. Sooo, writing it down, I see a few points that I probably made things harder (as mentioned in the parentheses), but felt like she was really playing hard to get, despite looking like she wanted me the whole time. I guess I didn't strike things in one way (her nubmer/my number) hard enough so it ended with me just leaving and turning down her socials. It felt hot, but unfortunate ending. Hopefully see her again. Any thoughts? Let me know!
Me: I have a suggestion *holds up the cable*...
Her: *eye fucking me instantly*
Me: This will help you pull the sled without hitting your chins.
Her: Ohh hi, thank you... How do you use it?
Me: *sets it up and demos it* Much easier... Are you pulling and pushing it?
Her: *staring at me* (I realize this also could be her being winded)
Me: I'll push it back to the start *does*
Her: *Still staring at me* (at this point it's beyond exasperation lol)
Me: (am close from moving the sled) *leans in closer* you know... You're cute... What's your name?
Me: What's your name?
Her: ___
Me: ... I'm ___ *handclasp*.... I can't tell, are you in college or highschool?
Her: College! I'm in college
Me: Where do you go?
Her: ___
Me: What're you studying
Her: I'm doing business, business and marketing?
Me: *pause and drawn out* Why?
Her: Because it's easy! *Laughs*
Me: You seem to be pretty out of air (pause)
Her: *agrees*
Me: (resumes) how about we hang out some time when we AREN'T exercising? (Probably not the best timing)
Her: Well, that depends!
Me: ...on what? *Skeptically/haughtily*
Her: How old are you?
Me: How old do you think I am? *Looks at her sexily/playfully*
Her: *giggles* ...late 20's
Me: Yeah, 29. That's surprising, usually people think I'm 23/24.
Her: I'm good at guessing ages
Me: Why? Do you have practice? *Sly smile*
Her: *laughs*
Me: How old are you?
Her: I'm 20.
Me: ahh that's older than my first girlfriend, you might be too old for me (not the greatest joke lol, had to backpedal a little)
Her: Younger than me? That could be concerning.
Me: Ehhh, I was 19 too
*Staring......*
Me: You should ask me something
Her: Hmmm, what do you do?
Me: I'm in tech... Let me grab your number (bit weak framing)
Her: Ohhh I don't give my number out easily.
Me: oh so you want to skip straight to hanging out? *Sly smile*
Her: *laughs* You can have my socials.
Me: ... I'm not a follower
Her: Oh that's too bad... Do you work here? (and as I was talking "I saw you over there talking to the front desk [lady])
Me: I might as well haha, I workout about 80 minutes, then talk as long. Other than the gym I'm just working mostly alone.
Her: *Ohh* (switched to a workout question) What do I do with the cables if I'm going the other way?
Me: Ahh, just put them up like *this* unless you want to walk back in between *teasingly*
*Pause*
Me: Lets do this, I'll give you my number and when you change your mind, you can reach out
Her: Oh so now we're doing you giving me your number?
Me: ...we could do either way (should've held one line, not flip-flopped)...
It just kind of ended I'm a stare off lol
Me: It was nice meeting you___... *Stares at her skeptically* remember mine?
Her: ___ * with cutesy attitude*
And I stroll off. Sooo, writing it down, I see a few points that I probably made things harder (as mentioned in the parentheses), but felt like she was really playing hard to get, despite looking like she wanted me the whole time. I guess I didn't strike things in one way (her nubmer/my number) hard enough so it ended with me just leaving and turning down her socials. It felt hot, but unfortunate ending. Hopefully see her again. Any thoughts? Let me know!
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Probably misread her exhaustion for more interest than she had early on.