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Harder to day game cute girls that hot girls. I'm I doing something wrong?

kristian

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Hey folks!

After reading Chases article https://www.girlschase.com/content/lower-your-standards-and-date-hotter-girls I started approaching more cute women instead of the hottest women. But for whatever reason the "cute enough-girls" don't seem as interested in me like the (in my eyes) most attractive women out there.

Before I continue, let me tell you a little about my game:
  • I usually approach directly
  • I am very aware of talking with conviction, and having the fundamentals down like eye contact, voice-tonality and giving a sexy vibe when I approach

The hottest girls usually dig my approach, and are not hesitating to give me their numbers when my approach is strong and confident. This can happen even after just talking for a minute or two. They are also more likely to ask me questions back and want to know more about me.

The not-so-attractive girls on the other hand, get a bit nervous, talk with short sentences and even excuse themselves and walk away. I mean; my approach is exactly the same, my compliments are genuine and I am always curious about them.

So why do they shy away? I feel like these girls are harder to game than the hot ones. Do you guys have any experiences with this, and how is gaming these girls different from the hottest ones?
 

Ree

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Lol...i feel you....bro...i had a post like this recently and got puzzled people thinking im nuts....
It just seems once u get ur fundamentals down..,,there is a bracket of gals who u cant get anymore.....cute gals,fat but cute gals,pretty but no class gals....the only als u get are confident gals....
Someone would ask....whydo u want the cute gals if u can get the hot ones?
The problem is the hot ones are not as numerous as the cute ones...right..
I dont have an answer to ur dilemna....as it is something i struggle with myself...,.just wanted u to know...i feel ya
 

Richard

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Two things;

1) The average/cute girls actually get approached more and have dealt with your tactics. Nobody approaches the hot girls so she enjoys talking to the guy who recognizes that she's a human.

2) Your attainability might be too low for the average girls from the get-go because you're strong and dominant. If you want to pull girls like this, you need to help them pass your tests/qualifications.

So, either these girls just aren't into your game because they've seen it a bunch, or because you come off as out of their attainability range from jump street. It's likely a combination of both things going on.

That being said, Chase wrote that article mostly for new guys who need to get field experience. If you're able to pull the hottest chicks then you can really focus on them as they are the most awesome girls to fool with.

-Richard
 

kristian

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Thank you for the reply, fellas. I needed some insights regarding this.

So Richard; does it mean that cute girls actually get hit on more often than hot girls? I did not know that. If so, approaching the hottest women should be my number one priority from now on. They are not so abundant, even in a country like Norway, so if I don't find any, but see a cute girl here and there, Ill go and talk to the cute ones. I want to be able to master this skill, so I guess I need some field experience with a variety of women.
 
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