Has anyone ever experienced their city drying up ?

[painted_boat]

So there are these two cities, my home town and this city where I worked. Both used to be abundant with good quality women.

However, around 2019 the crowd kinda dried up. I thought it was a temporary thing.. but then covid came and even until now it hasn't come back to the levels it was at before.

I am feeling like that situation is not going to happen again. Even if I find a lot of women sometimes at night and day venues they aren't as good as they used to be before.

Has anyone here experienced such with their cities ( not talking about a particular venue ) ? Does the situation become normal again or what do you do in that case ?

To add, I am from India.. and it's not as conservative and poor country as some might think.

Pickup came here as well and I feel the popular night clubs might have been affected due to the bootcamps and pickup but nothing other than that. Though a lot of prank videos esp. very cringe-y ones that trended a lot on social media might have definitely contributed. I have heard of random dudes literally jumping on girls.. and saying "Please be friend.. give phone number.."

 

[Spyce D]

So there are these two cities, my home town and this city where I worked. Both used to be abundant with good quality women.

However, around 2019 the crowd kinda dried up. I thought it was a temporary thing.. but then covid came and even until now it hasn't come back to the levels it was at before.

I am feeling like that situation is not going to happen again. Even if I find a lot of women sometimes at night and day venues they aren't as good as they used to be before.

Has anyone here experienced such with their cities ( not talking about a particular venue ) ? Does the situation become normal again or what do you do in that case ?

To add, I am from India.. and it's not as conservative and poor country as some might think.

Pickup came here as well and I feel the popular night clubs might have been affected due to the bootcamps and pickup but nothing other than that. Though a lot of prank videos esp. very cringe-y ones that trended a lot on social media might have definitely contributed. I have heard of random dudes literally jumping on girls.. and saying "Please be friend.. give phone number.."

Bro , I am from India.

If you want , we can have a private coversation about it .

Because , you are wrong about the way you think.

Telling you by my last year's experience .

And , do you approach girls in real life?

 

[Spyce D]

So there are these two cities, my home town and this city where I worked. Both used to be abundant with good quality women.

However, around 2019 the crowd kinda dried up. I thought it was a temporary thing.. but then covid came and even until now it hasn't come back to the levels it was at before.

I am feeling like that situation is not going to happen again. Even if I find a lot of women sometimes at night and day venues they aren't as good as they used to be before.

Has anyone here experienced such with their cities ( not talking about a particular venue ) ? Does the situation become normal again or what do you do in that case ?

To add, I am from India.. and it's not as conservative and poor country as some might think.

Pickup came here as well and I feel the popular night clubs might have been affected due to the bootcamps and pickup but nothing other than that. Though a lot of prank videos esp. very cringe-y ones that trended a lot on social media might have definitely contributed. I have heard of random dudes literally jumping on girls.. and saying "Please be friend.. give phone number.."

Most of these pranks are fake / improvised .

Seen it with my own eyes .

My wingman was even part of a prank video where the prankster (a female) did some stupid shit , everything was planned , tho.

What I do feel is in 2019 , more people did game than now . Even though more people know about it , now.

I would always find another guy gaming , whenever I went out to pickupfriendly areas .
Last year , I really couldn't .


So , just focus on yourself and not on mental masturbation .

 

[Spyce D]

So there are these two cities, my home town and this city where I worked. Both used to be abundant with good quality women.

However, around 2019 the crowd kinda dried up. I thought it was a temporary thing.. but then covid came and even until now it hasn't come back to the levels it was at before.

I am feeling like that situation is not going to happen again. Even if I find a lot of women sometimes at night and day venues they aren't as good as they used to be before.

Has anyone here experienced such with their cities ( not talking about a particular venue ) ? Does the situation become normal again or what do you do in that case ?

To add, I am from India.. and it's not as conservative and poor country as some might think.

Pickup came here as well and I feel the popular night clubs might have been affected due to the bootcamps and pickup but nothing other than that. Though a lot of prank videos esp. very cringe-y ones that trended a lot on social media might have definitely contributed. I have heard of random dudes literally jumping on girls.. and saying "Please be friend.. give phone number.."

Could also be due to most Indian puaz are influenced by RSD style gaming .

 

[Chase]

@painted_boat,

Sometimes it can seem like a city's dried up but it's actually just familiarity with the scene / gradual blinders:

The New Spot Bonus: Novelty in Your Meet Markets

When you first go somewhere new, it can seem like the best meet market you’ve found. Cute girls everywhere. But is this effect real or illusion? Remember when you first moved to town? Beautiful girls everywhere. Your new location was a visual feast: women with great bodies in sexy clothes...

www.girlschase.com

You might want to try checking out new venues / neighborhoods / locales you don't usually frequent and see if that "reboots" things for you.

If it does, it's probably blinders you had on to the places you were already very familiar with.

Either that or all the girls are squirreled away somewhere secret and they didn't pass the memo along to you

Chase

 

[Spyce D]

all the girls are squirreled away somewhere secret and they didn't pass the memo along to you

That's definitely not the case.

 

[MarioTheDom]

It happens all the time

Prague was amazing pre covid and pre sanctions, now it's an expensive average city

 

[painted_boat]

@painted_boat,

Sometimes it can seem like a city's dried up but it's actually just familiarity with the scene / gradual blinders:

The New Spot Bonus: Novelty in Your Meet Markets

When you first go somewhere new, it can seem like the best meet market you’ve found. Cute girls everywhere. But is this effect real or illusion? Remember when you first moved to town? Beautiful girls everywhere. Your new location was a visual feast: women with great bodies in sexy clothes...

www.girlschase.com

You might want to try checking out new venues / neighborhoods / locales you don't usually frequent and see if that "reboots" things for you.

If it does, it's probably blinders you had on to the places you were already very familiar with.

Either that or all the girls are squirreled away somewhere secret and they didn't pass the memo along to you

Chase

Thanks man, that was quite helpful.

Those biases are quite true. Shall definitely come handy when I am assessing a place.

That said, the major venues really seem to be burnt as well.. so I will just get to exploring new places now.

 

[painted_boat]

Most of these pranks are fake / improvised .

Seen it with my own eyes .

My wingman was even part of a prank video where the prankster (a female) did some stupid shit , everything was planned , tho.

What I do feel is in 2019 , more people did game than now . Even though more people know about it , now.

I would always find another guy gaming , whenever I went out to pickupfriendly areas .
Last year , I really couldn't .


So , just focus on yourself and not on mental masturbation .

Yeah bro, don't do mental masturbation.

 

[painted_boat]

It happens all the time

Prague was amazing pre covid and pre sanctions, now it's an expensive average city

That's sad, had heard a lot about that city.

So what new places did you try, any place in South-east Asia?

 

[Spyce D]

Yeah bro, don't do mental masturbation.

WTF