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Hey guys, there is this girl i met at university 2 weeks ago we've hung out 3 times now and i really like her and she likes me i've made it clear that i like her but she shuts down physical affection when i try to initiate it, no hand holding, no kissing, no hugging. she's from vietnam and she is catholic and goes to church every sunday. she did say she had sex with her ex but she dumped him because he would get angry and aggressive when she said no to sex. So my thinking is that, she's attracted to me but she wants to be sure that she means something to me and she wants our sex to be meaningful and even holding hands is a big deal to her it seems. She calls me handsome, texts me multiple times a day, she squeezes my biceps. She gave me a condom as a gift yesterday lol. What is the best way to arouse her, and to progress to kissing? She is the first girl that I've had that shuts down physical affection like this, yet it's obvious she likes me. I've had other girls where we had sex less than 15 minutes after meeting, so this girl presents something I haven't dealt with before. And I actually do like her, I started missing her yesterday. she said she thinks i am fuck boy, so i think that she thinks i won't commit to her. but i totally would lol. anyways, i do have a latina in class that told me i should come over. and there is a lifeguard from the pool i have a date with on friday. but i like this girl better than the other two. i genuinely enjoy my conversations with her she's fun, funny, fun to be ground, she's a goof ball. what do i do?
