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Have u ever convert a "maybe next time" into a "yes"?

Smith

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Hey guys,

this is a girl I met at an art gallery yesterday. She seemed excited to meet me and even invited me to go on an insta-date. But unfortunately, I had to run back to class so we exchanged numbers. right before we said goodbye, I invited her to do a ghost walk tour with me and she said yes.
But after I check the weather for Fri night - Freezing and showers. I changed my mind lol. So I tried to ask her out for a drink instead of the ghost walk tour. I usually wait for a day before asking a girl out, but I figured she seemed excited to meet me, so why not the next day.

Me: "Hey XX, hope ur day's going well and artsy! was thinking we should grab a drink to battle the cold! What's your schedule like?"
25 mins later
Her: "Thanks for investing, I'd love to but I will have test tmr...maybe next time?"
I replied almost 3 hours later, because I was busy.
It's after reading her text, I realized that her eng is actually not that good lol investing? or inviting?
Maybe she misunderstood what I mean by "what's your schedule like?" lol Should've been more specific, like what's your schedule like "this weekend"?
Me: "Yea sure let me know when ur free! good luck for ur test =)"
6 mins later....unexpectedly got a text from her
Her: "Thx! Catch u l8r =)"

didn't expect the last reply! So was this an attempt to brush me off?
or was it a genuine excuse?
Anyway! It's prob not important! cuz we'll never know for sure!
will prob try again in 3 days after the weekend.
Might propose the ghost walk tour this time.

So how many of you have actually convert a 'maybe next time' girl into a 'yes' girl?
Plz share some tips on how I could go about texting her next time =)
I have a feeling that a few texts of banter might work for this kinda girl, but I've been wrong before.

- Smith
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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