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MY 1ST DAYGAME LAY IN COLOMBIA
MILA APPROACHES ME
I've just started smoking a joint on a street corner in front of a fence near a park in Bogota. im wearing blue boots, a hat, black shorts, my atlantic city casino sweater and a black jacket. As I'm smoking, I spot in my peripherals a girl wearing a red dress and a long black leather jacket walking towards me...my attention goes back to the joint, which has gone out, so i turn around to face the fence to get some privacy to light it, since weeds illegal here. i hear a voice behind me:
i turn around. its the girl. shes a native colombian, has jet black curly hair, late 20s/early 30s, speaks poor english, and apparently....she likes weed. im not opposed to company so we start smoking together. she asks me a couple social frame questions. its really breezy conversation. shes friendly as most colombians are. to move things a little further, i tell her she reminds me of my ex. her face lights up and she touches her hair.
WE GO TO THE PARK
During this time the joint is hitting super bad so we go sit on a bench in the park, and talk while she rolls a new joint. I have some questions for her...like what her favorite animal is. she says its a dog. why? because dogs are really good friends. i cold read her that she's a really good friend. she gets into why she is, saying she's empathetic. Asking a girl what her favorite animal always helps me find out whether she's OCP/SUB/PPP. Her answer was typical of SUB.
After carefully building up some more social frame and emotional stimulation (found out shes also slants OCP), I quiz her on her english and start saying tough words for spanish speakers. She does not know the word "strengths". We share a laugh that i am trying to throw her off track or something. After the laugh she asks for my number and we make loose plans to meet again sometime.
SMOKING IN A PARKING GARAGE
The joint is re-rolled but we don't smoke there on the bench - she takes me around the corner onto a quieter street where the cops probably wont find us. we stop outside the entrance to a parking garage and start smoking. my plan is to continue emotional stimulation and practice sexual arousal.
i ask if anyones lied to her, and she says yes and tries to explain her best in english. she gets slightly agitated. i noticed this question often triggers girls to get amped up. after, she goes back to grill me more on social frame. She wonders where im from, how old i am, how long i've been here, and if i want to stay here. its time to be attainable so i tell her i really want to live here - because the culture in bogota reminds me of back home.
SEXUAL AROUSAL AND SEEDING THE PULL
im getting good reactions from her so i start seeding the pull:
and shortly after that, i verbally turn the conversation sexual but she doesn't understand. Some strangers pass by, and I make a cold read about their sex life - about how its so obvious the guy ties the girl up to the bed during sex and makes her scream. unfortunately, sex talk makes me nervous and this instance was no exception. all my energy went into managing my tone so it didn't get squeaky. this caused me to ignore important aspects of non-verbal communication like gestures and a helpful vibe. so, its no wonder she didn't understand.
whatever. i thread cut back to the seed:
and then i cycle back to the sexual arousal key. this time i focus on arousing her with nonverbals. the next verbal topic we discuss is non-sexual, but i focus on these 3 sexual non-verbal elements at the same time:
1. I am feeling euphoric as shit from the weed, so I transfer this euphoric energy over to her
2. i start talking in gentle, sensual tones to her like she's my girlfriend
3. i imagine fucking her
she definitely understands this. a wildly soft look appears on her face and we drown in each others eyes for several long moments. alright. time to pull.
she's teetering on the edge of it and we almost start walking away to my place. but she mentions still has to go to her dealers house. hmmm. we start making plans to meet the next day. after we make the plans, she asks me to come to her dealers house with her, a 10 minute walk away.
DECIDING TO BANG HER ANOTHER DAY
I could have pulled her this day, but I decided not to. At that moment, i had run all 3 keys and was at a high point. i was also right in the middle of a window to start more intimate forms of touch with her. but, my instincts were telling me that walking to her dealers house was not exactly going to be a sexy time. and that more language barriers were going to pop up between us, thus killing attraction.
I chose to stay on the safe side. I told her goodbye and went home.
TEXTING AND FLAKES
i text her immediately after leaving her and she's quite receptive. but, then she flaked on me twice and ignored me for a week. which i sort deserved, because my texting was shit. However, flakey behavior and ignoring texts seems to be pretty common among the girls i fuck here in colombia, so i wasnt worried.
after she ignored me for a week, it was time to get back in touch. but what was i going to say? i considered starting a new thread. but then i remembered 2 things: 1) @Glow's technique - he used to resend the same text when the girl doesn't reply. ive been field testing that out so i tried it here, and 2) i find that questions about my work often pop up towards the end of the first round of social frame. the teacher job reply often triggers the girl to open up a window for me, i take advantage of this window by asking for compliance or going to a new key. so i wanted to stay on this road in the conversation.
i resent the same text. she replied positively saying she wanted to see me and we made plans. I also found out shes a mother.
SHE COMES OVER
she arrives outside my apartment building the next day. i put on my, "im treating you like you're my girlfriend" vibe on and she's returns it with her feminine energy. it all feels natural. as my arm wraps around her lower back, It seems we are picking up where we left off before, which was at the edge of getting closer with each other.
she wants to smoke weed and starts walking down the street trying to find a place to smoke. no, woman! i tell her we are going to go the courtyard of the apartment building to smoke. she follows me in through the main entrance of the apartment building and we walk to the courtyard. when we get there, she is spooked. she's worried about getting caught, because the courtyard is a fairly public place. ive been smoking in there and never got in trouble so i reassure her there will be no problem. we sit down side by side in front of a garden with a water fountain in front of it. the andes mountains loom the distance. we start hitting her pipe.
Several key things happened here. I start hitting on some sexual narratives for subs, and she gets quite excited. This is what i found out:
1. FULFILLMENT - Shes in social work and likes to help people because it makes her feel fulfilled.
2. LETTING GO - She likes to express herself through dance, and the reason is because it helps her with a release
"i really like this", she keeps repeating all throughout this entire time. Then, all of a sudden it seems shes implying she wants to be qualified. I hop on it right away and tell her i like her and that shes not like the other girls... its a special moment, and both of us go silent, gazing into each others eyes....
minutes later we've finished smoking, so i lead her up to my apartment. on the way there she bumps into me so i grab her hand and hold it.
HEAPS OF FUCKING
We get into my apartment and sit down on the couch. I ask what music she likes. Reggaeton. So I start playing this song (my secret weapon lately) that i learned from WEED. The minute I put this shit on she melts into me and we start making out.
I take her to my room. the girl starts tripping over herself trying to get me to fuck her. its like she just cannot wait another moment for my dick to be in her. and it would be except ive been watching too much porn lately meaning im having troubles getting it up. :/ so i slow things down. we kiss for a bit while i focus on reseting my mind.
in a couple of minutes im ready to go....
....and what follows is the best sex of my life. she loses a lot of her inhibitions and not only do we fuck like rabbits, but we also make love!
for the rest of the night, she is obsessed with me. we fuck again before cuddling for a while, and then i kick her out gently.
MY 1ST DAYGAME LAY IN COLOMBIA
MILA APPROACHES ME
I've just started smoking a joint on a street corner in front of a fence near a park in Bogota. im wearing blue boots, a hat, black shorts, my atlantic city casino sweater and a black jacket. As I'm smoking, I spot in my peripherals a girl wearing a red dress and a long black leather jacket walking towards me...my attention goes back to the joint, which has gone out, so i turn around to face the fence to get some privacy to light it, since weeds illegal here. i hear a voice behind me:
i turn around. its the girl. shes a native colombian, has jet black curly hair, late 20s/early 30s, speaks poor english, and apparently....she likes weed. im not opposed to company so we start smoking together. she asks me a couple social frame questions. its really breezy conversation. shes friendly as most colombians are. to move things a little further, i tell her she reminds me of my ex. her face lights up and she touches her hair.
WE GO TO THE PARK
During this time the joint is hitting super bad so we go sit on a bench in the park, and talk while she rolls a new joint. I have some questions for her...like what her favorite animal is. she says its a dog. why? because dogs are really good friends. i cold read her that she's a really good friend. she gets into why she is, saying she's empathetic. Asking a girl what her favorite animal always helps me find out whether she's OCP/SUB/PPP. Her answer was typical of SUB.
After carefully building up some more social frame and emotional stimulation (found out shes also slants OCP), I quiz her on her english and start saying tough words for spanish speakers. She does not know the word "strengths". We share a laugh that i am trying to throw her off track or something. After the laugh she asks for my number and we make loose plans to meet again sometime.
SMOKING IN A PARKING GARAGE
The joint is re-rolled but we don't smoke there on the bench - she takes me around the corner onto a quieter street where the cops probably wont find us. we stop outside the entrance to a parking garage and start smoking. my plan is to continue emotional stimulation and practice sexual arousal.
i ask if anyones lied to her, and she says yes and tries to explain her best in english. she gets slightly agitated. i noticed this question often triggers girls to get amped up. after, she goes back to grill me more on social frame. She wonders where im from, how old i am, how long i've been here, and if i want to stay here. its time to be attainable so i tell her i really want to live here - because the culture in bogota reminds me of back home.
SEXUAL AROUSAL AND SEEDING THE PULL
im getting good reactions from her so i start seeding the pull:
and shortly after that, i verbally turn the conversation sexual but she doesn't understand. Some strangers pass by, and I make a cold read about their sex life - about how its so obvious the guy ties the girl up to the bed during sex and makes her scream. unfortunately, sex talk makes me nervous and this instance was no exception. all my energy went into managing my tone so it didn't get squeaky. this caused me to ignore important aspects of non-verbal communication like gestures and a helpful vibe. so, its no wonder she didn't understand.
whatever. i thread cut back to the seed:
and then i cycle back to the sexual arousal key. this time i focus on arousing her with nonverbals. the next verbal topic we discuss is non-sexual, but i focus on these 3 sexual non-verbal elements at the same time:
1. I am feeling euphoric as shit from the weed, so I transfer this euphoric energy over to her
2. i start talking in gentle, sensual tones to her like she's my girlfriend
3. i imagine fucking her
she definitely understands this. a wildly soft look appears on her face and we drown in each others eyes for several long moments. alright. time to pull.
she's teetering on the edge of it and we almost start walking away to my place. but she mentions still has to go to her dealers house. hmmm. we start making plans to meet the next day. after we make the plans, she asks me to come to her dealers house with her, a 10 minute walk away.
DECIDING TO BANG HER ANOTHER DAY
I could have pulled her this day, but I decided not to. At that moment, i had run all 3 keys and was at a high point. i was also right in the middle of a window to start more intimate forms of touch with her. but, my instincts were telling me that walking to her dealers house was not exactly going to be a sexy time. and that more language barriers were going to pop up between us, thus killing attraction.
I chose to stay on the safe side. I told her goodbye and went home.
TEXTING AND FLAKES
i text her immediately after leaving her and she's quite receptive. but, then she flaked on me twice and ignored me for a week. which i sort deserved, because my texting was shit. However, flakey behavior and ignoring texts seems to be pretty common among the girls i fuck here in colombia, so i wasnt worried.
after she ignored me for a week, it was time to get back in touch. but what was i going to say? i considered starting a new thread. but then i remembered 2 things: 1) @Glow's technique - he used to resend the same text when the girl doesn't reply. ive been field testing that out so i tried it here, and 2) i find that questions about my work often pop up towards the end of the first round of social frame. the teacher job reply often triggers the girl to open up a window for me, i take advantage of this window by asking for compliance or going to a new key. so i wanted to stay on this road in the conversation.
i resent the same text. she replied positively saying she wanted to see me and we made plans. I also found out shes a mother.
MARCH 24TH, 2021
fog: hey mila nice to meet you, i just realized something - fog
mila: hello!!! nice to meet you. excuse me, i brought your lighter without realizing it.
mila: your name is fog?
fog: yes
fog: we see us tomorrow at 5. bring the lighter with you
mila: great nice to meet you
mila: yes
MARCH 25TH, 2021
fog: 8pm is better
mila: could be tomorrow? i can't make it today, i'm doing my daughters homework
mila: yes?
fog: i like the idea mila
MARCH 26TH, 2021
fog: mila
mila: hello today i can't excuse me,, how about tomorrow? at 5pm
fog: alright. i expect you to be here with my lighter tomorrow at 5pm
mila: are you angry?
fog: no i am busy the days after tomorrow
mila: what do you normally do in your day? what's your job?
fog: im a kindergarten teacher. i teach english to the children
APRIL 1ST, 2021
fog: im a kindergarten teacher. i teach english to the children
mila: good!!!!
mila: i want to see you
fog: do you need a taxi to arrive here?
mila: yes tomorrow
fog: yes
mila: good
fog:
mila: goodnight
the next day, logistical texting happens
fog: hey mila nice to meet you, i just realized something - fog
mila: hello!!! nice to meet you. excuse me, i brought your lighter without realizing it.
mila: your name is fog?
fog: yes
fog: we see us tomorrow at 5. bring the lighter with you
mila: great nice to meet you
mila: yes
MARCH 25TH, 2021
fog: 8pm is better
mila: could be tomorrow? i can't make it today, i'm doing my daughters homework
mila: yes?
fog: i like the idea mila
MARCH 26TH, 2021
fog: mila
mila: hello today i can't excuse me,, how about tomorrow? at 5pm
fog: alright. i expect you to be here with my lighter tomorrow at 5pm
mila: are you angry?
fog: no
i am busy the days after tomorrowmila: what do you normally do in your day? what's your job?
fog: im a kindergarten teacher. i teach english to the children
APRIL 1ST, 2021
fog: im a kindergarten teacher. i teach english to the children
mila: good!!!!
mila: i want to see you
fog: do you need a taxi to arrive here?
mila: yes tomorrow
fog: yes
mila: good
fog:
mila: goodnight
the next day, logistical texting happens
SHE COMES OVER
she arrives outside my apartment building the next day. i put on my, "im treating you like you're my girlfriend" vibe on and she's returns it with her feminine energy. it all feels natural. as my arm wraps around her lower back, It seems we are picking up where we left off before, which was at the edge of getting closer with each other.
she wants to smoke weed and starts walking down the street trying to find a place to smoke. no, woman! i tell her we are going to go the courtyard of the apartment building to smoke. she follows me in through the main entrance of the apartment building and we walk to the courtyard. when we get there, she is spooked. she's worried about getting caught, because the courtyard is a fairly public place. ive been smoking in there and never got in trouble so i reassure her there will be no problem. we sit down side by side in front of a garden with a water fountain in front of it. the andes mountains loom the distance. we start hitting her pipe.
Several key things happened here. I start hitting on some sexual narratives for subs, and she gets quite excited. This is what i found out:
1. FULFILLMENT - Shes in social work and likes to help people because it makes her feel fulfilled.
2. LETTING GO - She likes to express herself through dance, and the reason is because it helps her with a release
"i really like this", she keeps repeating all throughout this entire time. Then, all of a sudden it seems shes implying she wants to be qualified. I hop on it right away and tell her i like her and that shes not like the other girls... its a special moment, and both of us go silent, gazing into each others eyes....
minutes later we've finished smoking, so i lead her up to my apartment. on the way there she bumps into me so i grab her hand and hold it.
HEAPS OF FUCKING
We get into my apartment and sit down on the couch. I ask what music she likes. Reggaeton. So I start playing this song (my secret weapon lately) that i learned from WEED. The minute I put this shit on she melts into me and we start making out.
I take her to my room. the girl starts tripping over herself trying to get me to fuck her. its like she just cannot wait another moment for my dick to be in her. and it would be except ive been watching too much porn lately meaning im having troubles getting it up. :/ so i slow things down. we kiss for a bit while i focus on reseting my mind.
in a couple of minutes im ready to go....
....and what follows is the best sex of my life. she loses a lot of her inhibitions and not only do we fuck like rabbits, but we also make love!
for the rest of the night, she is obsessed with me. we fuck again before cuddling for a while, and then i kick her out gently.
