Hi there. My first post. I would really appreciate some feedback. A long tale here. Here's goes:
There’s this girl and we’re work colleagues. Flirting with each other for about six months straight. Everyone who saw us together asked why we weren’t together, and everyone who didn't know us and saw us together thought we were together. Basically, long story short, I was too slow with her and she found another guy. She did the whole “mean thing” with me, calling me names, saying how much I frustrated her (she said I frustrated her and she didn’t know why) and saying how annoying I was. So yeah, she met a guy, but this is where it get’s peculiar (at least to me). I genuinely have no idea what’s going on (I’m not very experienced, so I think this definitely has something to do with me being completely in the dark).
Our flirting pretty much lasted nonstop from April 2013 to August 2013 (although it still goes on, but more on that later). August 2013 is when she met her new fella. I remember the day very well when she said she met someone. I felt awful, although I didn’t show it on my face. At least I didn’t think I did. That night at work she kept on looking at me and playfully hitting me for no reason, almost a frustrated look on her face.
Anyway, months past. Still flirting with each other, but nothing substantial. First annoying thing was how she seemed to constantly divulge to me her and her boyfriend’s “nightly” activities in great detail. I told her I didn’t much care for this, but she would just laugh and carry on doing it, saying she found my reaction funny.
Anyway, December 2013 is when things took a weird turn (at least for me). It was literally just before Christmas (it was the 20-something of December). That day she was actually acting quite affectionate with me the whole day. Hugging me and kissing me. Nothing substantial, just little things. Anyway, that night at work we were just casually talking and then she was about to say something, but then quickly said “No, I don’t think you would like it. You'd call me a bitch". Of course, this prompted me to prompt her further, and I eventually got it out of her. She basically told me what I already assumed, that months ago (during the summer, just before she met her boyfriend) she had it bad for me and wanted to sleep with me, trying to get my attention. Well, I already said I didn’t bite because I’m an idiot, so that was that.
Since December 2013 three main things have happened: I’ve gone worse with her, teasing-wise, she seems to have gone worse with me and she still brings up the fact that we could have been sleeping together or maybe even more. Honestly, all these months later, and she still brings that up? Whenever we are on our own I would say that about eight times out of ten she starts teasing me very badly. She didn’t really do this before. It varies, but its mostly her touching my chest (she likes chest hair), sitting on my lap (sometimes in a provocative manner), biting me, hitting me, rubbing her foot over my groin or, although quite rarely, but its happened more than once, basically stroking my groin and “little friend” with her hand. As a result, I’ve pretty much broken the touch barrier with her, too, constantly caressing her legs, squeezing and slapping her behind, touching and fondling her breasts and other things.
It’s actually getting quite bad. Meanwhile, she continues to go out with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend goes away in June for seven months, BTW. She’s already said that if she can’t “cope” she’s coming straight to me. That’s another thing; too, she still constantly tells me that she still “would” and that she finds me cute and adorable and would sleep with me.
It’s just funny how she does things for no reason. She’ll hug me (proper strong hugs with both her arms wrapped around my neck) and then bite my neck and shoulder for no reason. She bit my backside through my jeans the other day, when I walked up the stairs in front of her.
So, long story short, the flirting isn’t so much flirting anymore, but real teasing. We were just talking last week at work normally, juts two friends. She was sitting and I was standing in front of her. Then for no reason she stretched out her leg (she knows I have a serious leg fetish, BTW) and pressed her foot up against my upper thigh. I then started to caress her leg, not even realising I was doing it, just as we continued to talk normally. Then she got up, gave me a tight hug and said “If only you’d said something sooner” and walked off. Where the hell did that come from?
There is much, much more I can name, like the time a couple of weeks ago when she told me about her and her boyfriend having sex, something that I told her not to do. I then went all quiet and unresponsive, and she just walked past me and looked at me, saying “What’s wrong, jealous?”. Again, no reason. But yeah, there are loads more I can mention, but I won’t.
Thank you if you’ve got to the end of this. I really appreciate it. So, am I just being cock teased or does this girl still seem to be interested in me? I genuinely do not know what to think anymore. It doesn’t help matters that we work together, in a job where there are only three or four members of staff at any given time, so we are very close together a lot of the time. But the real stuff usually only happens when we are alone.
So, any words of wisdom?
There’s this girl and we’re work colleagues. Flirting with each other for about six months straight. Everyone who saw us together asked why we weren’t together, and everyone who didn't know us and saw us together thought we were together. Basically, long story short, I was too slow with her and she found another guy. She did the whole “mean thing” with me, calling me names, saying how much I frustrated her (she said I frustrated her and she didn’t know why) and saying how annoying I was. So yeah, she met a guy, but this is where it get’s peculiar (at least to me). I genuinely have no idea what’s going on (I’m not very experienced, so I think this definitely has something to do with me being completely in the dark).
Our flirting pretty much lasted nonstop from April 2013 to August 2013 (although it still goes on, but more on that later). August 2013 is when she met her new fella. I remember the day very well when she said she met someone. I felt awful, although I didn’t show it on my face. At least I didn’t think I did. That night at work she kept on looking at me and playfully hitting me for no reason, almost a frustrated look on her face.
Anyway, months past. Still flirting with each other, but nothing substantial. First annoying thing was how she seemed to constantly divulge to me her and her boyfriend’s “nightly” activities in great detail. I told her I didn’t much care for this, but she would just laugh and carry on doing it, saying she found my reaction funny.
Anyway, December 2013 is when things took a weird turn (at least for me). It was literally just before Christmas (it was the 20-something of December). That day she was actually acting quite affectionate with me the whole day. Hugging me and kissing me. Nothing substantial, just little things. Anyway, that night at work we were just casually talking and then she was about to say something, but then quickly said “No, I don’t think you would like it. You'd call me a bitch". Of course, this prompted me to prompt her further, and I eventually got it out of her. She basically told me what I already assumed, that months ago (during the summer, just before she met her boyfriend) she had it bad for me and wanted to sleep with me, trying to get my attention. Well, I already said I didn’t bite because I’m an idiot, so that was that.
Since December 2013 three main things have happened: I’ve gone worse with her, teasing-wise, she seems to have gone worse with me and she still brings up the fact that we could have been sleeping together or maybe even more. Honestly, all these months later, and she still brings that up? Whenever we are on our own I would say that about eight times out of ten she starts teasing me very badly. She didn’t really do this before. It varies, but its mostly her touching my chest (she likes chest hair), sitting on my lap (sometimes in a provocative manner), biting me, hitting me, rubbing her foot over my groin or, although quite rarely, but its happened more than once, basically stroking my groin and “little friend” with her hand. As a result, I’ve pretty much broken the touch barrier with her, too, constantly caressing her legs, squeezing and slapping her behind, touching and fondling her breasts and other things.
It’s actually getting quite bad. Meanwhile, she continues to go out with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend goes away in June for seven months, BTW. She’s already said that if she can’t “cope” she’s coming straight to me. That’s another thing; too, she still constantly tells me that she still “would” and that she finds me cute and adorable and would sleep with me.
It’s just funny how she does things for no reason. She’ll hug me (proper strong hugs with both her arms wrapped around my neck) and then bite my neck and shoulder for no reason. She bit my backside through my jeans the other day, when I walked up the stairs in front of her.
So, long story short, the flirting isn’t so much flirting anymore, but real teasing. We were just talking last week at work normally, juts two friends. She was sitting and I was standing in front of her. Then for no reason she stretched out her leg (she knows I have a serious leg fetish, BTW) and pressed her foot up against my upper thigh. I then started to caress her leg, not even realising I was doing it, just as we continued to talk normally. Then she got up, gave me a tight hug and said “If only you’d said something sooner” and walked off. Where the hell did that come from?
There is much, much more I can name, like the time a couple of weeks ago when she told me about her and her boyfriend having sex, something that I told her not to do. I then went all quiet and unresponsive, and she just walked past me and looked at me, saying “What’s wrong, jealous?”. Again, no reason. But yeah, there are loads more I can mention, but I won’t.
Thank you if you’ve got to the end of this. I really appreciate it. So, am I just being cock teased or does this girl still seem to be interested in me? I genuinely do not know what to think anymore. It doesn’t help matters that we work together, in a job where there are only three or four members of staff at any given time, so we are very close together a lot of the time. But the real stuff usually only happens when we are alone.
So, any words of wisdom?
