HELP! I always lose attraction

[Ree]

From the time I approach to the first date...I get some girls that are very attracted,dripping with compliance
E.g (girls initiating text convos,girl pushing for date)
After date 1...invariably the attraction fades....in the event of a failed pull,how do you maintain the attraction till date 2?

 

[Chase]

Ree-

Important question: are you losing attraction because you attempt to pull them home for sex, they decline, and the attraction sputters out, or are you losing attraction no matter what you do - pull or no pull?

If the former, you probably need to handle declines more playfully/gracefully.

If the latter, sounds like you aren't creating enough reason for girls to want to see you again. If she feels great chemistry (deep diving, relatability) and you build a lot of intrigue (Byronic traits, baiting), women will want to see you again.

If they are not wanting to see you again, you need either more connection, or more intrigue.

(There's also the chance you're meeting women from some really extreme place like a nightclub and the escalation window is just short and expires after one date. However, if that's not the case, and you're just meeting regular girls in regular scenarios, you're probably making a mistake on the date somewhere that is sabotaging attraction after the date)

Chase

 

[Ree]

Hey chase...as usual grateful for all your works,...man I'm coming back to seduction after a long time and I can't believe how much I suck...even getting aa again....anyway....to your question
I think I lose it wether I pull or I don't pull.....I only do day game....sometimes sextalk gets girls horny.(girl starts talking about sex...maybe even initiating touch)..then I pull....in those scenarios ...the pull fails...with the girl saying...il come over next time....but these "next times " never materialize and attraction fades very quickly after that

 

[Chase]

Ree-

Yeah, that happens. Rust accumulates, and then you've got to shake it off. It's like muscle memory after you haven't worked out for a while though... at first you're shocked at how far you've fallen, but then it all comes back pretty darn quick.

It sounds like your problem is lack of connection. If girls are getting turned on but don't want to do anything with you, usually means they don't feel connected enough to you. I'd spend a little while playing around more with deep diving, cold reading, etc., and work a little more connection in as you do your sex talk. See how that combo works.

Chase