help needed: move-on line, how to read odd behaviors?

[Anonymous]

Howdy, gents!
I wish everyone is enjoying the new site that Chase just launched!

I've been running into a few odd behaviors from girls at my college, I don't know how to read them.

I'd like to call them the move-on lines, because new guys like me/us, sometimes don't quite get why girls behave in a certain ways. So, after initial interactions, I don't really know whether I should forget about it to move on, or keep pushing forward.

Or are there anything that we can use to test their interest level ONCE FOR ALL?

I'm hoping if there are solutions, they can help other members on this board, too.

Here are a few that I could think of at the moment.

1. When I talk to a girl in class (before class starts), she keeps playing with her phone or texting friends, don't know which one. Sometimes she talks back, but without even LOOKING at me. Pretty annoying to me.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

2. When I ask a girl to join me for coffee, she says something like she'd love to, but without evening LOOKING at me. Then, she starts talking to someone else beside.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

3. When I see a girl in my class in the library walking to other guys to check their computers (maybe friends of hers). I decide to walk to that girl when she sits back down and say "hi" and "I'm in her class" or something. Results: very cold, looks like trying to send me off.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

4. When I text a girl to ask her out for coffee, she does not response (all texts are responded except for that one).
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

5. Forgot to say "hi" to a girl for a few times, she went really cold after that, no matter what I do.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?
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Lance

 

[Light]

1. When I talk to a girl in class (before class starts), she keeps playing with her phone or texting friends, don't know which one. Sometimes she talks back, but without even LOOKING at me. Pretty annoying to me.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

A: It means - Bad Timing, you're disturbing her. Don't approach girls who seems busy and in the middle of doing something. You want her full attention.

2. When I ask a girl to join me for coffee, she says something like she'd love to, but without evening LOOKING at me. Then, she starts talking to someone else beside.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

A: It means - You're asking her at the wrong time again. You need to be asking her that question when you're one on one with her, after you've gotten to know a bit about each other.. Work on your fundamentals in opening girls. Work on your Chase Framing.

3. When I see a girl in my class in the library walking to other guys to check their computers (maybe friends of hers). I decide to walk to that girl when she sits back down and say "hi" and "I'm in her class" or something. Results: very cold, looks like trying to send me off.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

A: Why did you even do that? You're not obeying the law of least effort. It is more natural to position yourself next to her computer as she sits down, and strike a coversation from there. You walking up to her as she gets comfy.. very creepy. Too much effort. She obviously knows you want something.

4. When I text a girl to ask her out for coffee, she does not response (all texts are responded except for that one).
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

A: It means shes already friend zoned you or turned you into one of her text buddies. The best way to ask a girl out for coffee, is when you're actually physically talking to her, and you two seem to get along with each other, but there just isn't enough time to talk about everything.

5. Forgot to say "hi" to a girl for a few times, she went really cold after that, no matter what I do.
Q: What does it mean? Is it time to move on?

A: Move on.

 

[Tyme2k]

I'm not going to go too much into detail as light did, but the answer to every scenerio is move on. I feel like there's something wrong with your initial game, for some reason these girls don't respect you enough or hold you in high enough value to listen. A powerful, high value guy doesn't have to ask for attention he automatically gets it.

I will disagree with interupting girls when they are busy, I do this all the time. Most guys will NOT do this and most of the time it sets you apart. Don't apologize, but don't waste her time either.

And light, I'll have to disagree with this also..

You're not obeying the law of least effort. It is more natural to position yourself next to her computer as she sits down, and strike a coversation from there. You walking up to her as she gets comfy.. very creepy. Too much effort. She obviously knows you want something.

In my opinion it would be much creepier to sit next to her not conveying your intentions and trying to stike up natural conversation. I have always done my best in set by making sure my intentions are clear. If she's not interested in me that's fine, as long as I'm doing my part. If you're fundamentals are good there shouldn't be any issue of creepiness. I used to get called creepy all the time cause I'd do shit like this, now I never do. Go right in own that set, stare at their soul, project your voice, get them focused on you.

They are just silly little girls you are a powerful man.