Hey all, I need help here understanding one of the Articles chase wrote. This has to do with getting a girl back. I had some help from a great member on here with other aspects of this.
I was seeing a great girl over the summer, she was treating things between us as special, while I became distant to the point where we went our separate ways without any harsh words and friendly. We were sexually intimate.
I was just an idiot that didn't know what he wanted at the time.
I really think if I wasn't a ding dong we could have had something awesome.
When i texted her recently i offered to meet up and catch up she indicated she was still dating the same person (not me) without answering if she wanted to meet up. We texted for a bit about non relationship stuff. The last text was mine asking her how her shopping outing went. She did not respond.
My question is in regards to sending a message that chase was referring to in his article about acknowledging where it went wrong and how things could be different now only if we had the chance (long lost love type of message he refers to )
Would this apply to my situation? Is she in the right moment for this? Or another hey let's get together and catch up?
I know holidays are a tricky time and noone will abandon a relationship they have.
I'm also concerned if I don't express something of a bit more depth she will think I'm just chatting which leads to nothing.
I'd love to at very least continue continue to keep in touch without ruining the possibility of a reunion .
Part of me is also scared if I don't act now would she just end up more into someone else?
What are your thoughts on all this?
I should point out she is also a mother of 2 young kids.
Thanks
I was seeing a great girl over the summer, she was treating things between us as special, while I became distant to the point where we went our separate ways without any harsh words and friendly. We were sexually intimate.
I was just an idiot that didn't know what he wanted at the time.
I really think if I wasn't a ding dong we could have had something awesome.
When i texted her recently i offered to meet up and catch up she indicated she was still dating the same person (not me) without answering if she wanted to meet up. We texted for a bit about non relationship stuff. The last text was mine asking her how her shopping outing went. She did not respond.
My question is in regards to sending a message that chase was referring to in his article about acknowledging where it went wrong and how things could be different now only if we had the chance (long lost love type of message he refers to )
Would this apply to my situation? Is she in the right moment for this? Or another hey let's get together and catch up?
I know holidays are a tricky time and noone will abandon a relationship they have.
I'm also concerned if I don't express something of a bit more depth she will think I'm just chatting which leads to nothing.
I'd love to at very least continue continue to keep in touch without ruining the possibility of a reunion .
Part of me is also scared if I don't act now would she just end up more into someone else?
What are your thoughts on all this?
I should point out she is also a mother of 2 young kids.
Thanks
