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Hey, all

New to forums not so much to girlschase. Been an avid reader for 2 years. I Started putting this stuff into practice about 6 months ago but been putting off making an account til today. Hope to learn so much from all of you. And Hopefully to join this great community. Now to my question....

But first background. Skip to the last paragraph for the down and dirty

For starters i commute on bus. About 2wks ago i went out sarging and was way too caught up in approaching a specific number of hbs that i failed to notice IOIs being shot at me. While sitting down going through my strategy, stack, and intent an hb 7 opened me. Upon open, i swear i just stared for around 20 sec. Then gears started turning in my head. I hit the hb7 (lets call her mellissa) with a cold read. "You dont look like your from around here".
Hb: ha ha. Why do you say that
Copious: smile...pause... Maybe its the way you carry yourself.....

Blah. Blah. Blah apoligize in advance(i intend on transposing my field journal into a full field report soon)


And. Phaseshift
We progress. I deep dive her more about travel. She blurts out that she secretly likes to sing. We talk about our mutual music interests. Then i number close. (span of 15min)


Day 2. Finally we meet up for an early morning walk in the park. (pitch dark) She's really warm. (emotionally). We fluff for a few minuts. She brings our musical interests up then she decides she wants to sing to me. She starts clearly very nervous, sininging a song she supposedly wrote. All the while, she keeps looking at me as though im supposed to say something. I take it as a window of sorts to qualify her. I do. I ask her why are you so nervous? You dont have to be nervous around me with a cocky smile. I say ur doing good. Youur amazing. (now that i type it, doesnt sound as good).

She stops. Maybe still nervous? Hb 7 then asks if she can play music to get in the mood. I laugh, thinking " huh, chicks have to get into state too" . then i tell her to do whatshe needs to do. She then turns on some music to get her in the mood to sing. She plays some dance music then slows it down to bedroom R&B. She gets into the mood then starts dancing. She looks at me with puppy dog eyes then takes off her top layer. (its 40something degrees Fahrenheit) . she smiles at me then starts bending over slowly. At this point i do the 20 sec. Freeze realizing that shes pulling stripper moves. Then she gives me that same look as before as though i should do something. I say a weak "damn, girl". Then i wonder if im turning into those cat call. Guys from the strip club. She keeps looking at me as though i should do something. She drops a layer then comments that one of her friend said she had a future as a stripper after she did that slow sqaut thing strippers love to do .(is that a shit test? Escelation window? I nod. I mumble something about paying bills. Didnst expect to get this far in 20 min. Then she gets cold.(she actually says its getting cold after pulling a srtip tease for 10 mins) Loses composure. Then starts putting on her layers. She changes the subject. I sit dazed on a bench. Wtf. Should i have qualified her for dancing? could i have escalated? I feelas though she wanted me to take her on a park bench What would you guys have done?
 

Beast69

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You could have tried doing her on the park bench or a local spot nearby if logistics were bad and couldn't take her home/her place. Her just using music and saying it's cold is giving herself plausible deniability so it could 'just happen'.

-B
 

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radeng said:
You just absolutely missed one of the most blaring escalation windows of all time haha. Instead of saying damn girl, u could have teased and said I think u may have a future as stripper or I think u just might. You honestly should have kissed her when she was even debating singing for you.

Wash rinse repeat bro!

Radeng
Thanks for input. You think so? wish i saw that at the time... Im curious now. Should you go for the kiss if you arnt fully escalating? (we were in a public park)i heard from gambler that that diffuses future tension.

radeng said:
Probably lost it now who knows.

Radeng

sure hope not. is it recoverable or do i dump this set and go elsewhere?
 

Fuck This

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I'm a big fan of when a woman wants to dance to move into a couples slowdance. You might start with a more swing style with spins, and gradually work it into you holding her.

I instigate this by saying, "Hon, dancing is a couples activity. C'mere" with my hand out. Before long she should be grinding on your leg. Now she is not teasing you, you are mutually escalating.

Make another date with logistics in mind. Refer to "private dance lessons", or watch the movie Dirty Dancing together.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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TwoRocky said:
I instigate this by saying, "Hon, dancing is a couples activity. C'mere" with my hand out. Before long she should be grinding on your leg. Now she is not teasing you, you are mutually escalating.

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That is gold. Someone's gotta add that to De Angelo's lists. I figure you could also lead in with that in mind. Definitely much more interesting than standard escalation. Thanks. Gonna try that
 

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Definitely an escalation window! You should have taken her to your place (at this point I think any pretext would be enough for her XD)
 
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