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help w/sex logistics while living w/parents

HoofHearted

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Hey
so because you are in seduction totally mediocre and incompetent, you manage to derail a post with water is wet type of advice, move out and self develop, no fucking shit sherlock excellent advice extremely practical...

Thank you dude! Total posturing...
Hey now no need for that.

Gentleman, i apoogize for derailng/souring the air. Just here temporarily, tryin to learn.

For the OP, my own suggestion in practical application: exercise if you arent, be hydrated and sleep. If there's something you like to hustle about, be it college or selling homemade cutting boards from your garage-- consider as an option spending energy on that rather than women. When I was younger, shopping my resume and getting hired into great jobs saved me but this may not work for everybody and I definitely wish I started off more entrepreneurial (sp)

I'm hopping out of this thread, good luck.
 

StrayDog

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@bharri5

Get good at screening/navigating logistics in general.
This knowledge will go a long way in your circumstances.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

StrayDog

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This is the kind of question that's difficult to answer for everyone.

Some guys are productive, driven, conscientious guys who have fallen off the rails. For them, living a bohemian life and banging punk rocker girls in the back of their van isn't going to cut it. They would do best to get a routine, hit the gym, get work and hobbies in order. Then they will be happy enough with themselves that they can communicate success and contentedness.

Then there are some guys for whom game represents a fresh sort of creativity that they are missing in their life - they have their life in order(or maybe even they don't), but it's suffering from a lack of self expression, spontaneity, passion. Growing out their hair, getting a van, and living part time in the mode of the wanderer/explorer, playing around with the possibilities of reality and enjoying the feeling of instability is just what they need to rekindle their spirit.

My default is to tell a guy to put his life in order (because frankly, most people are not the wandering vagabond type). And in some ways, a man should pursue women as a sort of rebellion from the strictures that life imposes upon him, rather than because someone told him to do so. For example when I have a son I won't be telling him to go and daygame, I will simply tell him about women and all the fun you can have with them, tell him to do his homework and work on his grades, and leave him be. As he goes through life, succeeding and wanting more, competing and dominating, he will naturally be drawn to all the objects of his desire, and take pleasure in independently seeking out his own experiences. My job is not to convince him, but to cultivate a general desire toward life and the sort of discipline he can use anywhere and anytime to succeed.

I've seen guys commenting here confused (and no doubt a lot of the red pillers are the same way) thinking that the idea of a guy successfully pulling women while broke or generally a failure by society's standards (though, importantly, certainly not by his own) requires some kind of sleight of hand or trickery. The fact is you can do it - it might not be 'best' for you, it might not express what you personally want to express to the world - but it does work. I got pussy when I was flat broke (a few hundred dollars to my name) and living on a tiny 25 foot sailboat. I had one good kit to wear and that was it. I didn't try to present as rich or anything, but I did present with flair, in a striking, unforgettable sort of way, I called myself (jokingly) the Captain, extolled the pleasures and dramas of sailing the seven seas, and women used to living a boring life with boring guys enjoyed it. They might or might not have known I was eating spaghetti and tuna because that's all I could afford, but it didn't matter.

The reality about reality is that it is malleable, it is a putty to a man whose mind and presence overwhelms it, who declares that it must represent something it never represented before and is willing to be the one to hold it together by sheer will. The fact is that people are generally dissatisfied with reality, it doesn't match up with their dreams about what it was supposed to become, and their intuitions about what it could yet be. But to be that kind of catalyst, the one that shows them and makes them believe, is not something most people can conjure within themselves, they are too worried and anxious and fearful about all the problems they already have and their ability to navigate them. But when you can do it, you become a symbol, and symbols are what ultimately shape the human experience of reality.
I have witnessed absolutely incredible feats performed by people who by one standard or another were repeatedly viewed as wayward souls. Told that their path was a fool's errand, and would lead to nothing. Meanwhile, those same people wagging fingers followed every step in the book only to find they lived a life incredibly distant from what they truly valued.
 

Miquel

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I've being reading a lot of posts like this.

I just wish a lot of the responses were more holistic. I probably won't float around here much longer

Don't get me wrong. Sex, and the ability to get sex, is important. But clearly it's only a piece of masculine development, highly related and affected by more important things.

For so many of you guys, the answer is just to continue to grow. A man needs to NOT live with mama, if you live your whole goddamn life with mama then you FAIL.

You do not need PUSSY, you need NOT LIVE WITH MAMA, and whatever internal conditions make that possible. Oh I'm sure you can find funny and clever ways to fuck girls while living with mama. Maybe even in her herb garden, or while shes watching Days of Our Lives.

I guess what I mean is the stock and standard advice ought to be to take all this incredible energy and instead of spending it on girls, spend it on developing yourself, which will help you greatly to get girls, with a baseline being of not livin with mama.

I on the other hand am old and mature enough to live with ur mom. Please forward contact information.
lol relax bro i just moved back in for a little while I'm 25
 
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