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Hey guys.
I'm a 20 year old black guy, tall with a well built body - I work out often. I have a bad left eye. I have a squint on my left eye to be precise. I was involved in a car accident as a kid. Its not attractive at all and used to be a problem for me when maintaining eye contact. It is fixable through surgery and I'm going to have it done next year but I dont want it to deter me.
I've had this condition for like 12 years now.
Anyways I started beign interested in pickup scene when I was about 17 and have been at it since *not as actively at times though*. I have no problem approaching and talking to girls, I'm a great flirt and for someone with my very visible unattractive disability i've pulled alot of hot girls. In high school, I fingered a hot older girl at the public library (I was 17 she was 21), kissed and made out with a girl at the back of a packed theater at a school debate competition with an audience, been offered a blowjob in the school toilets by a really hot chick in school after I was touching her in class.And just recently, I got my friend's girlfriend(i didnt know, but she knew) to go out with me, I didnt go out with her after I found out, then she started sending me all these jokes ( videos ) on female masturbation and sex. I would play along and we'd start sexting and she started telling me she likes me and would like me to visit her at her house. I stopped talking to her cause ... friendship is more important.
Anyway, what I'm trying to say is I'm not attractive, but not ugly, just my eyes alignment which is 'an issue'. Its one of my insecurities but even with it I push pretty good game for a beginner. Im not completely hopeless!
So recently I started trying cold approach and I get some girls say walking in the opposite direction looking at me, I maintain eye contact but just cant seem to approach, even if she shows signs shes interested. Recently this girl walking in the opposite direction, I looked at her, she smiled - she seemed interested, We both looked away passed each other, I looked back at her and she was looking back and she smiled again. She then stopped and turned and looked at me, she wanted me to approach her, but I just continued walking....*i know im a pussy*
I need help with my cold approach. As you can imagine having this condition, not everyone who looks at me is attracted, some people will be looking at my eye and its not really nice. I get around this by maintaining eye contact with people who stare at me until they look away *not a stare-off competition, but i try to signal that im not threatened by them and im aware that they're staring at me using body language/eye contact, subtly of course*. My problem is when Im doing the cold approach Im often not sure if girls maintaing eye contact with me are looking at/freaked out by my eye or are genuinely interested. What tips,advice do you think would work for me ?
*ps this is how i look like *not me though* I wear glasses also http://www.squintmaster.com/images/infa ... tropia.JPG
I'm a 20 year old black guy, tall with a well built body - I work out often. I have a bad left eye. I have a squint on my left eye to be precise. I was involved in a car accident as a kid. Its not attractive at all and used to be a problem for me when maintaining eye contact. It is fixable through surgery and I'm going to have it done next year but I dont want it to deter me.
I've had this condition for like 12 years now.
Anyways I started beign interested in pickup scene when I was about 17 and have been at it since *not as actively at times though*. I have no problem approaching and talking to girls, I'm a great flirt and for someone with my very visible unattractive disability i've pulled alot of hot girls. In high school, I fingered a hot older girl at the public library (I was 17 she was 21), kissed and made out with a girl at the back of a packed theater at a school debate competition with an audience, been offered a blowjob in the school toilets by a really hot chick in school after I was touching her in class.And just recently, I got my friend's girlfriend(i didnt know, but she knew) to go out with me, I didnt go out with her after I found out, then she started sending me all these jokes ( videos ) on female masturbation and sex. I would play along and we'd start sexting and she started telling me she likes me and would like me to visit her at her house. I stopped talking to her cause ... friendship is more important.
Anyway, what I'm trying to say is I'm not attractive, but not ugly, just my eyes alignment which is 'an issue'. Its one of my insecurities but even with it I push pretty good game for a beginner. Im not completely hopeless!
So recently I started trying cold approach and I get some girls say walking in the opposite direction looking at me, I maintain eye contact but just cant seem to approach, even if she shows signs shes interested. Recently this girl walking in the opposite direction, I looked at her, she smiled - she seemed interested, We both looked away passed each other, I looked back at her and she was looking back and she smiled again. She then stopped and turned and looked at me, she wanted me to approach her, but I just continued walking....*i know im a pussy*
I need help with my cold approach. As you can imagine having this condition, not everyone who looks at me is attracted, some people will be looking at my eye and its not really nice. I get around this by maintaining eye contact with people who stare at me until they look away *not a stare-off competition, but i try to signal that im not threatened by them and im aware that they're staring at me using body language/eye contact, subtly of course*. My problem is when Im doing the cold approach Im often not sure if girls maintaing eye contact with me are looking at/freaked out by my eye or are genuinely interested. What tips,advice do you think would work for me ?
*ps this is how i look like *not me though* I wear glasses also http://www.squintmaster.com/images/infa ... tropia.JPG
