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Help with 2nd date please!

Dylweed

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First date we met up for ice cream downtown, near her house. Then for about an hour after that, we walked through the city, then by the lake. Then i invited myself over to her house to chill for a little, saying it was closer than mine. She agreed. We talked for a little on her balcony then went inside and sat on her living room couch. After a few minutes i kissed her, we started making out. It felt awkward(I'm very inexperienced and i think she is too). After a while she apologized for being so awkward and said it was because her roommates were there, which was true, she has a lot of them, they were all away in their rooms at the moment though. I stopped escalating and suggested tv. We watched tv for about a half hr then i left.

That was a few weeks ago now and she still agreed to meet up this week for food(was a little surprised actually). Should i try inviting her to my place this time? Eat lunch/dinner then invite her home to watch netflix? Then escalate there? Or should i skip inviting her home this time?

I'd appreciate any advice, thanks
 

Richard

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Dyl, sounds like she is interested in you, and that being said: CAPITALIZE ON HER FEELINGS ASAP.
-I recommend going out to eat (because it's what you posted) somewhere closer to your house so you can easily persuade her to go back to your house, and then escalate there as long as you have privacy in the house.
-After the first date with making out, she knows what saying Yes to a second date would entail, and if she said yes, and does show, she is interested and because of that, and with your house being so conveniently close to where you're eating, she will definitely agree to going back to your house.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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