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Help with a slightly older girl

kderin

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OK so there is a girl i like...basically i am in love with her for about 6 months.I see her everyday in the gym and she is 24-25 years old ( never asked her directly).We talk everyday and sometimes we go to the gym together because our homes are close to each other and sometimes i meet her on the road so u know why not walk with her to the gym.We have tons of mutual interests that we talk about...and we discuss about these interests or anything that we think of everyday in the gym.We talk on facebook too.I am 18 years old and i would like to know if i have a chance with her.....I have never had a relationship with an other girl before just because i could find the right one...wasnt looking just to get laid.So now that i found her i would like to know if i have a chance and how should i approach her without messing up..because she is older.Also any advices about how to make her fall for me?U know like me sexually..
 

Mr.Rob

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Hey Kderin, I can personally say I've been in a similar situation of yours. Unfortunately I don't have any great advice to help you make her your girlfriend or lover, whatever you desire.

However I could point out a couple things you might want to think about with regards to how you went about this in the first place that may help you with this girl but will most certainly help you with future girls if this one doesn't work out.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls

https://www.girlschase.com/content/attraction-has-expiration-date

I'd read the attraction has an expiration date first.

As far as with regards to this girl if I were you I'd invite her out with you to be together alone, preferably at your house, and show her your true intentions of wanting to be with her by escalating on her and seeing if she bites.

Good luck mate!
 

kderin

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Thanks for the fast reply mate...as for the suggestion u made..I asked her to come at my place and she agreed. we already have planned this for the summer cause our scedule is a bit busy right now so maybe in 1-2 months she will come by my place but the thing is i dont know how to give her the point that i like her and i dont know how to say that to her because she is older and i dont know how she will react.I may mess up cause i am inexperienced when it comes to talking to girls about your feelings for them.
 
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