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killerman

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So nowadays I'm trying to improve my tinder pics. Would be cool if you guys could give me some feedback as to what you think of them and how, which ones I should replace and how I could improve on them. I've finally figured out how to upload pics to girlschase so here they are below. Let me know what you guys think:

 

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Hi there Killerman,

first of all I want to say that you're quite a handsome guy (no homo). Now that being said, I would keep pics number 2, 4, and 5. The pic of you with a baby and the selfie has to go. Other than that, I think you should have a pretty good Tinder profile. I recommend having a nice one line summary that is both sarcastic and witty, mines was "My mom made me sign up for this".


Have fun man, you should do great on Tinder with the right pics.
 

killerman

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Ok cool, thanks for the feedback! So how would you say I can improve on the selfie? Also what would you say is bad about the pic of me with the baby? Low quality pic? Too blurry? Cheers!
 
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@Oh Pry
Mind critiquing mine. I suck at Tinder and need tips on my pics/bio
 

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killerman,

First of all, have you tried using these pics before? I'd scrap the baby picture. Girls will think it's yours and swipe left in a second. Not too sure about the pic with your arms around the girls. Some girls will definitely auto-reject you because of it depending on their self-esteem. Also, if you live in a city where the competition is fierce, these pics may not get you the results that you want, but experiment and see if they work. If you get a bunch of quality matches with these pics, then you're good to go, but if your results are still not up to par, then you'll have to upgrade your style, facial hair, hair cut, and picture quality. Competitive markets online are cut throat where only the strong survive - if you're not the top 10%, then you will struggle.
 

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killerman said:
Ok cool, thanks for the feedback! So how would you say I can improve on the selfie? Also what would you say is bad about the pic of me with the baby? Low quality pic? Too blurry? Cheers!

Selfies just scream "I am lonely and don't have a social life", exact opposite of DHV. Only time when they are okay is if you are damn good at fillers like Instagram type fillers AND they are accompanies by pics of you being social. Yours is just very basic, be creative with it and work the fillers but really though, you don't need a selfie.


Eternity said:
@Oh Pry
Mind critiquing mine. I suck at Tinder and need tips on my pics/bio

Sure but don't pay too much attention to bio, it's fucking Tinder, they only care about pics and looks.
 

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Didn't write this myself, but it's solid advice.

Pic 1; I'm interesting as fuck and you must view my other pics
-Eye catching. Unless you are outlandishly handsome, you will need something to grab attention. This could be a nice suit, nature backdrop, cute asf dog, great body, halloween costume, guitar etc. Certain colours, ie vivid blue, red, black n white catch the eye.
-Must identify you and clearly show your face. If using a group pic, crop it so you are the focus.
-Ideally cropped from the waist or lower chest. Full body pics can be used as openers, but they still need to show the face.
-An open mouthed smile makes most people look their best.
-Confident pose.
-Outfit and grooming 100% on point.
-Include as many things which show you're someone good to be around.
-If you have a good body, rep a shirtless pic in a logical situation like the beach or lake etc.
-If you aren't aesthetically gifted, smash as much humour and personality and eye catching crap into this photo as possible. Even if you are a handsome motherfucker, you should try to do this.
Pic 2; My body is bangin
-Full body or waist crop.
-Well fitting and flattering clothing to ensure your body type is communicated.
-ideally this would be either a suit/formal photo or a rugged outdoorsy photo. Whatever is the polar opposite of pic 1, to show two sides of you. So by now the girl looking at your pics knows you're active and can dress well.
Pic 3; I leave the basement on occasion
-Full body or cropped
-Doing something with other humans ie hiking, at a restaurant, team sport photo, a lineup pic with your bros or ladies.
-Ideally display some kind of setting which would be appealing to the kind of girl you like. They now should be able to visualise themselves slotting into your lifestyle.
Pic 4; I'm quirky or funny or really interesting
-Just show off your interests / humour / personality / cute dog etc.

If you have more photos which add something tangible then by all means use 5 or 6.

What's your M.O?
-Are you looking for hookups? If so, I recommend displaying as many masculine traits as possible. Show your confidence by standing front centre in group pics, make sure your clothes flatter your chest and arms, have some stubble or a beard, have some unsmiling pics, rep your tattoos, include the colour red in your photos, go shirtless more than once if you have the body for it.
-Are you looking for a girlfriend? Play the nice guy card. Cuddle animals, pose with your family, wear white shirts, smile, do dreamy outdoors shit, show off travel and and a desirable lifestyle, show your safe looking bunch of pals.
-What age do you want to appeal to? Younger girls may prefer an adventurous guy who displays his athletic prowess, party animal side and goofiness, whereas older girls may prefer a career guy who shows off his income, sophisticated humour and maturity. Reference current pop culture trends like music and movies etc.
-Do you want a certain "type"? Reference whatever they are into. If you want a party girl, have photos at clubs and socialite events. If you want a sporty girl, show your team photos and trophies off. If you want a deviant, include some dark / morbid / sexual shit. If you want a hipster, fuck you.
-I generally recommend trying to be as broad in your appeal as possible, particularly if you seek hookups. I don't give a shit what kind of girls I bang as long as they look decent. So I show every aspect of myself; in shape, has a brain, likes animals and humans, leaves the house, is a tad edgy, etc.
General good shit to include
-A range of close and full body photos.
-Handsomeness, which can be increased via good grooming, physical fitness and fashion.
-Good grooming. Get a haircut and style that shit. Keep your facial hair under control.
-Fashion. Clothes should fit well and be in good condition, colours should be complimentary to your skin, you should include minimum of one "well dressed" photo. Generally simple fashion is better ie a fitted white t shirt looks great on pretty much everyone, as does an ironed dress shirt... whereas a t-shirt with a bright, goofy logo may look immature.
-Access to cool shit. Nice watch or car; exotic holidays; fancy house? Find a non douchey way to show them off.
-Cute animals. Dogs are the best, cats are good too, and anything kinda different could catch the eye. If it doesn't belong to you that's ok; just say it died.
-Athleticism
-Happiness
-Masculinity
-Artiness
-Education
-Musicality
-Tattoos
-Social life
-Career
-Confidence!!!!
-Diversity. You should treat your tinder photos as a portfolio, each photo adding something new or displaying a different aspect of you.
Shit I recommend against
-Selfies. Most guys are terrible at taking them, and lens distortion will ALWAYS make you look less attractive than you are.
-Sunglasses in more than one pic. Sunglasses in the opener.
-Photos which you aren't even in. This seems to be really common particularly with animal pics. Ffs pick that cat up and take a photo of you with it. Noone wants to bang your pet. Or maybe they do.
-Photos in which you are obscured or facing away.
-Messy backdrops. Noone wants to see your dump of a bedroom in the background.
-Snapchat filters or "beauty mode". Anything which creepily smooths your skin or makes your eyes look super vivid must be avoided. Girls use them a lot but they'll make you look like a fuckin idiot.
-Stupid hand signs or derpy face pulling.
-Divisive points like smoking, obviously drunk, political or religious shit, drugs, etc.
-Creepy friends. Your tinder date needs confidence you don't hang with a bunch of sinister mofos.
-Obvious exes. Any photo which shows you looking cosy with one female will put off many girls. However you with two or more girls will be a positive.
-Don't be a wallflower. Any group pics should focus on you either via composition or via cropping.
-There is a lot of other shit I can't be bothered listing, but just use your brain and you should be fine.
Final comments;
-Be aware of the difference in quality of photos from cell phone, to camera, to pro camera. Google "lens distortion face" to understand how bad a crappy camera can make you look.
-Lighting is the key to getting a good photo. Pics taken around dawn or dusk or on cloudy days tend to be most flattering to your face. The light source should be behind the camera.
-Don't edit photos unless you know what the fuck you're doing, and don't dramatically change your appearance. Lighting mods are fine, as are minor touchups.
-Use Square Instapic to put photos on a square canvas for easy uploading without annoying edge crops. Facetune is a great mobile pic editor. Photolayers is a great mobile app for creative photo editing.
-Cropping should be full body, mid thigh, waist or chest. No floating heads or awkward knee crops.
-Watch your pose. Crossed arms can look masculine and tough, but can also look defensive and unfriendly. Arms behind your back can look confident. Hands in pockets can look casual or awkward. Be aware of what flatters your physique and what makes you look like a sack of crap.
-If you lack suitable photos, buy a sony rx100 and start getting pics taken when possible. Use a tripod and timer to take your own. Get pro pics taken by a photography student or fashion photographer. Say they're for extras work if you're weird about it. Actively attend things which can result in photos ie nightlife spots, social sport events etc.
-I recommend using only 3-4 pics unless you're really hot or really interesting or happen to have a fuckton of good pics. Generally it's best to condense as much desirable shit into as few photos as possible, rather than provide 6 photos full of left swipe ammo.
-All the above is without knowing anything about you. Obviously noone can portray all those aspects, but everyone can portray some. Play to your strengths, hide your weaknesses, fake it til you make it, smile, dress well, be interesting and cool.

I have to attest to the power of the dog pic. I have two pics on my Tinder (need some more, put it in hidden until I get them), one is a decent selfie, the other is a dog pic. Got over a dozen matches in my first week. Best part, doesn't even have to be yours.
 

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2,4,5 look good. 5 for main pic... that is a solid one!
 

killerman

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Problem Solving -

I'd only tried one of these pics before, the guitar one but I didn't get good results because all my other pics weren't good (1 match a day) and my profile pic was a low resolution, low quality pic. However, a week ago I decided enough was enough and since then i've started experimenting with different pics. Also I've scrapped the baby pic. Looking back now, that baby pic was terrible lol

Anatman -

I've taken your advice and now using the guitar one as my profile pic and today i've got 4 new matches, a big improvement on my usual, consistent, mediocre average of 1 a day. Thanks a bunch!


As for what I'm going to do from now on i'm going to continue experimenting and taking new photos. Going to Eastern Europe next month so will use that opportunity to have some pics taken of me in front of awesome scenery/monuments. Also i know someone who has a dog so will next time i see that person I'll get a pic taken with the dog as we know chicks dig photos of guys with animals. Also about the selfies, could I get away with having a selfie as a profile pic as long as the lighting was good and my hair and fashion was impeccable?
 

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killerman said:
However, a week ago I decided enough was enough and since then i've started experimenting with different pics.

Yep, keep experimenting until you find the money shots.

killerman said:
Also about the selfies, could I get away with having a selfie as a profile pic as long as the lighting was good and my hair and fashion was impeccable?

Yes! Aesthetics is everything online. I use several selfies and clean up online. Practice smiling and looking away from the camera. It's important for the profile pic to not only look aesthetic, but also approachable. Too many guys try to go for the brooding sexy guy for their profile pic, and they just end up looking like Debbie Downers - completely unapproachable. Who wants to go on a date with a guy that looks like he hates his life?

Take selflies in your car or in front of large windows for the best lighting. Use filters and apps to prevent Tinder from autocropping your pics.
 

killerman

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Cool. How many matches on tinder do you estimate a guy should get if his hair and fashion and quality of pics is impeccable? In other words, How many matches a day do you think the top 10% of guys on tinder get every day?
 

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It depends on so many factors that it would be impossible to give an accurate number, since it will depend on the picture quality, your location, your search radius, the age range of your search, the amount of swipes you make, and the quality of the swipes that you make. The newer you account, the more matches you get. That's why after the 2 or 3 week mark, your pics will rarely be shown to any girls, which grinds the amount of matches to 0.

A safe rule of thumb is roughly 2 or 3 lays per 100 matches on Tinder, but these numbers can change drastically depending on all the factors I listed. The more matches you have the better of course.
 

killerman

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Problem Solving -

I live in a city of 340, 000 people
Search radius - 21km
Age range of search - 18-40
Deleted by account then reinstalled it 2 days ago
As for how many swipes i make I swipe the maximum until i run out of matches
 

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hmm...

Aesthetics thing doesn;t work well though. I have other pictures at 90% plus above. I must test

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