Her satisfaction over yours ?

[johnydones]

So ,after 14 days without sex (and no masturbation. I wanted to check that out too , works great for approaching...) i arranged a meet with this girl i slept with few times before. After about 1-2 hours of talking we went to her room. Looks like she loves to play games , she comes to me , gets me hard then goes to her PC to change the song , for about an hour like that. At that point i went primal , could not say another word anymore . i managed to last about 6-7 minutes with no fancy things , it was all about me that time.

After sex we laid in bed and she started getting me up again so i started massaging around her private area , and then she told me: "you have to learn how to touch a woman , its important that the woman is satisfied if you want her to give you more, i did not finish few minutes ago." (that made a massive confidence hole in me, but i tried to remain unmoved by her statement)

Now i know better then answering this with something stupid so i just remained silent , and thought i will redeem in round 2 , but she fell asleep soon after. I slept over at her place , it was 3am at that point and she gave me a ride home next morning.

Ok , so what do you think overall and do you think i should always focus to satisfy her first then myself ?
When we are on subject on learning things , can you recommend some posts/videos/articles on this subject ?

-JD

 

[Franco]

JD,

See my response to Sam's LR- titled "Bad Sex" right here.

If you say something like what I mention in that response after the first round, then she probably won't make that comment, and you'll get your opportunity to blow her mind on round 2.

- Franco

 

[johnydones]

Thanks Franco , it's just what i was looking for !