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John1987

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Hi everyone, my name is John, i'm 17 and I'm from Brazil.
I stumbled upon this site in the middle of last year, and ever since my view about dating and seduction has drastically shifted.
I have been reading and gradually implementing the ideas and concepts of GirlsChase in my everyday life and interactions, and have definitely noticed changes in the way I'm perceived by girls and other men too.

The thing is, I've been struggling with how to ask girls in my class out, since I have the perception - which may very well be wrong - that the girls with my age want to have fun and do high energy activities rather than go out for coffee, for example, and talk. I'm saying this because there's a chick in my school that seems pretty much into me, but I'm not sure if she'll agree to a date where we mainly talk. Although the only way to find out is to ask, right? I'm just trying to maximize my chances here... hahaha

My question is: in a situation where a woman is into you, does the nature of the date matter much?

And another: what's the difference between sexual framing and chase framing? I cannot quite grasp the first one... Can any of you give me some examples?

All insights are welcome.
 

Reave Krieger

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Hi John,

Well if ALL insights are welcome. Here's what I think:

- You should avoid doing fun dates, even if the girl is into you. You want to get to know her and not concentrate on any given activity. So yeah: keep it simple and go for a walk or coffee and talk :)
- You shouldn't bother too much about one specific girl. I know it is hard if you haven't abundance mentality yet (I don't have it either) but keep dating LOTS of new women
- Sexual Framing is making clear to a girl that you have sexual or romantic intentions with her and that you won't be a boyfriend or friend zone candidate
- Chase Framing is how you make her believe (subconsciously) that she is pursuing/chasing you and not vice versa

Keep it up
 

John1987

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Hello Jumok,

Thank you for enlightening me, that was really the answer I was looking for.

Cheers,
John.
 
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