High Standards

[enon]

Hey guys, one of the biggest problems for me is that I'm pretty picky with the girl I go for. Is that bad? Should I do it with chicks who aren't as hot to get practice?

 

[Richard]

Depends on your skill level and your ability to learn from every interaction. I never really went for chicks who weren't at least 6s (if you use a number scale. The lowest girl I've ever fucked was a 7. My standards were kinda crazy when I started and I eventually had to settle a little bit (down to 6s and 7s) to get more experience.

Now, talking to 6s and 7s does not mean you have to bed them or date them. Simply approaching them and holding a conversation with them will do a lot for your overall game and in reality 6s-8s are some of the more stuck up women because they get approached more. 9s and 10s are seldom approached because many guys consider them out of their league but lower than 9 is fair game for a lot of men and thus these women can sometimes feel like they're better looking than they actually are.

Anyway, my advice is to talk to everybody regardless of your standards because talking, approaching, and pulling numbers doesn't necessarily mean that you have to bed every girl that you talk to.

Enjoy the adventure buddy,

-Richard

 

[enon]

Depends on your skill level and your ability to learn from every interaction. I never really went for chicks who weren't at least 6s (if you use a number scale. The lowest girl I've ever fucked was a 7. My standards were kinda crazy when I started and I eventually had to settle a little bit (down to 6s and 7s) to get more experience.

Now, talking to 6s and 7s does not mean you have to bed them or date them. Simply approaching them and holding a conversation with them will do a lot for your overall game and in reality 6s-8s are some of the more stuck up women because they get approached more. 9s and 10s are seldom approached because many guys consider them out of their league but lower than 9 is fair game for a lot of men and thus these women can sometimes feel like they're better looking than they actually are.

Anyway, my advice is to talk to everybody regardless of your standards because talking, approaching, and pulling numbers doesn't necessarily mean that you have to bed every girl that you talk to.

Enjoy the adventure buddy,

-Richard

An issue I ran into was that I was simply talking and having a fun chat with one of the girls in school, but I didn't think she was hot and so I avoided her signals because she wasn't the type I would want to go to bed with. Now this obviously made her disappointed as she was expecting me to see where she stands on the affection level and make moves accordingly. I just pretended to be ignorant. So was that the right thing to do, or should I have done something else?

 

[Bboy100]

https://www.girlschase.com/content/lower ... tter-girls

Chase pretty much says everything that needs to be said on the topic in this article. But the long of the short of it is, don't lower your standards when it comes to GFs, but do lower your standards for girls you just date/sleep with. If your standards are too high, there aren't enough available prospects for practice, which in turn will cause you to improve slower which in turn will cause you to sleep with less of the kind of quality girls you actually like.

I would say more, but like I said, the article covers pretty much everything. I would definitely read it.

 

[enon]

https://www.girlschase.com/content/lower-your-standards-and-date-hotter-girls

Chase pretty much says everything that needs to be said on the topic in this article. But the long of the short of it is, don't lower your standards when it comes to GFs, but do lower your standards for girls you just date/sleep with. If your standards are too high, there aren't enough available prospects for practice, which in turn will cause you to improve slower which in turn will cause you to sleep with less of the kind of quality girls you actually like.

I would say more, but like I said, the article covers pretty much everything. I would definitely read it.

Thanks for the feedback and the link! I really appreciate it.

 

[Zoro]

Lowering your standards is a good thing. You learn to see attractive traits in more girls and that they can still be fun and interesting.

Just go into it as a learning experience.

I've noticed that when I was using porn, my standards were higher... or rather when I stopped using it, I became attracted to girls I had not noticed before. If you are using it, cut down on it/stop.

 

[Perseus]

I fully agree with J Wick, getting out of the porn altered mind state and into real life really changes your perception of what an 'attactive' woman is for the better (in my opinion).

 

[Lotus]

Depends on your skill level and your ability to learn from every interaction

But the long of the short of it is, don't lower your standards when it comes to GFs, but do lower your standards for girls you just date/sleep with. If your standards are too high, there aren't enough available prospects for practice, which in turn will cause you to improve slower which in turn will cause you to sleep with less of the kind of quality girls you actually like.

Both of these responses. In my opinion it comes down to one thing, sacrificing some of your pride/ego to get references points. Do you want to risk losing a high quality girl beacuse you are inexeprienced? would you be willing to sleep with 2 "lower" quality girls so that when a girlfriend quality girl comes along you can keep her?

 

[ray_zorse]

Ahh guys on the subject of talking to less hot girls but not fucking them:

A cautionary tale, I have had a stalker for the last 3mth or so, incessantly sending angry and moralistic texts to my phone, recently graduated to sending me parcels, 3 page letter etc, then approaching me to find out what I thought of them (I hadn't replied to any of it) then chasing me around the school trying to pass notes to me after I said "NO!". Well I recently figured out what was behind this behaviour: Missed escalation window -> she's disappointed, angry and frustrated.

What's so weird is I was never attracted to her in the first place, agreed to meet with her purely at her insistence (she wanted to give me some stuff which I initially refused but eventually out of politeness agreed to take a small part of it which I could use), then again out of politeness I suggested a coffee before we went our separate ways and deep dived her for half an hour or so over coffee (didn't say anything sexual) and finally had her give me a lift back to my car which was parked on the other side of the school, this must be when she thought I was gonna make my move, and my not doing so has really fucked her up. All the symptoms of missed window, yet it was totally innocent (if misguided) on my part.

So for heaven's sake if you do this, try not to lead them on!!

-Ray