Hinge Date Messaging Overinvesting?

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

Question for hinge text messaging: How to close a girl with a proper texting thread that doesn’t make it seem like I’m asking to meet in person too soon?





Recently matched with an incredibly beautiful girl(imo), had a couple dialogue exchanges back and forth, but when I mentioned the option of meeting in person, she hasn’t responded yet. Only a few hours, but slim chance she responds.





Any way to make sure I time the ask for a date correctly/make her feel more comfortable?





Any tips would be appreciated

Here’s how the chat thread went btw:

Me:Future ex wife right here(in response to one of her photos)

Her: ex?

Me: Yup we get married next week have kids by next month and divorce in 2 months

All cuz ur ex is still alive

Her: I don’t have an ex lol

Me: Wow we just might be able to make it to the three month mark then

I can tell you how the rest of it goes over coffee?

What days work?

 

[TwoNameGame]

2 things I see:

1. You didn't secure compliance before asking her to invest in you. Try to get her to qualify.
2. You didn't build a reason for her to accept a date yet. Try building up to a date she'd like. For example, if she likes music, try to deep dive a bit into music then transition to local restaurants with live music.