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Background: Been working this chick on and off a while. Her profession is invaluable to me (medical field) so I have to tip toe the fine line between her doing professional favors for me or spitting typical indirect/direct game with my trademark assholeness and rocking the boat a bit. Lucky for me, I can keep the lust under control and use an icy head to plan my moves accordingly. The caveat is that she's married w/kids. I really don't care for this. I know they're other hoes out there and shit but to me... It's the challenge, the thrill of the forbidden that does it for me. Which makes me love the game and continue on this path. I'm a big boy so keep ethical/moral arguments out of the thread.
I thank Iceberg Slim for this mindset, keeping it icy with them hoes.
Anyway, when I first met this chick I really wasn't on point "game" wise, I was feeling like shit (medical issues) and needed to see a Doc at this fucking clinic with shitty doctors. I remember I talked to her like a normal person, no smooth lines, smile, cockiness or anything that resembles how I am when gaming hired guns. At some point in our interactions I needed to give this clinic a paystub to provide proof of income. And since I was a lazy mofo and did not want to go to the public library to print a copy. I decided to ask this girl if I could send her the copy to her work email address. I wasn't even being "nice" about it, almost blunt and a bit demanding heh. She was weighing the options on her mind and submitted to my request (compliance) and gave me her work email so I send it to her and everything was roses. After my useless session with the doctor, I went over to her desk thanked her and scheduled another appointment for blood work.
This is where the game starts, where the wheels in my head start turning and my radar for IOI's start scanning. I noticed the prolonged eye contact, more smiling than usual, the tone in her voice seemed a bit softer with me, the huge compliance/investment by letting me have her work email address (try it sometime with a nurse/receptionist and report what they say), the fact that she charged me pretty cheaply compared to what I make and should be charged and then in the myriad of my physical ailments it hit me... This chick wants me. Fuck, feeling like shit almost blurred out the subtle signs in front of me. Almost. I didn't number close that day, I decided to keep her on ice and let her help me professionally as this was more valuable than doing a flaky number with little deep diving in front of everyone. Nah, this type of game always needs a more delicate touch. Thus, in my concurrent sessions with the doc, I saw her more and more, upped the sexual stares, cockyness, deep diving, pre selection, vulnerability, ect. In the end, I almost decided to not game her even though she was begging for it because as I mentioned above, professionally she is more valuable and being in good standing with a contact like that is invaluable to me.
But sadly, I needed to go back to see the doc n shit but when I did I didn't see her anymore like usual. This troubled me deeply, so after not seeing her four times I used the email she gave me to ask her an innocent question about something I already knew the answer to. If she responds, then she still works there and I can proceed accordingly. She doesn't, probably doesn't work there anymore and I lost a valuable contact and my chance to fuck her.
She did but was a little blunt, not much to go on. So I started an "innocent" conversation through email that soon turned very flirty and I asked what her schedule there was so I can "stop by and say hello". She gave me the days and I then wrote to her that I would stop by soon and that "muffins were on her" (something she mentioned in the past that she loves). After telling me that they should be on me because it was her birthday followed by many lols and hahas I agreed and told her I would go see her soon. Fast forward to today, I walk in (muffin in hand) and she's not at her usual spot. Not like her to lie to me, I decided to walk around and finally spot her at the opposite side of the building. She's with a patient and after a couple of minutes of waiting we are finally alone. I hand her the cupcake and wish her happy bday. She loves it, she gives me this look that i know denotes deep attraction towards me. I shoot the shit with her, flirt, making her laugh, not even trying much (fundamentals/experience/sexual vibe paying dividends). Holding up a big line in the process. We dgaf about it. She tells me it won't be long before she leaves that job and does something else with her life. This really saddens me for some reason and before I get her personal number coworkers swoop in and cockblock me by taking her attention away towards work. I say I have to go, she tells me it was great seeing me, to email her if I needed anything and I leave.
In the car I know I got one way to cop that number and moving shit forward even more with her. More of what I did on my second post. This is getting too long...
Guys, remember this is a married hired gun, simple game will rarely work. You have to let temptation, lust, and your absence work the mystery of you in her mind. This is not always easy game and have to plan moves like you would in chess. I understand this is not for everyone and that's fine; but remember some icy player can use long term strategies like these (while fucking easier targets) on yo girl. It behooves you to know the type of players and their strategies to seduce taken women.
I thank Iceberg Slim for this mindset, keeping it icy with them hoes.
Anyway, when I first met this chick I really wasn't on point "game" wise, I was feeling like shit (medical issues) and needed to see a Doc at this fucking clinic with shitty doctors. I remember I talked to her like a normal person, no smooth lines, smile, cockiness or anything that resembles how I am when gaming hired guns. At some point in our interactions I needed to give this clinic a paystub to provide proof of income. And since I was a lazy mofo and did not want to go to the public library to print a copy. I decided to ask this girl if I could send her the copy to her work email address. I wasn't even being "nice" about it, almost blunt and a bit demanding heh. She was weighing the options on her mind and submitted to my request (compliance) and gave me her work email so I send it to her and everything was roses. After my useless session with the doctor, I went over to her desk thanked her and scheduled another appointment for blood work.
This is where the game starts, where the wheels in my head start turning and my radar for IOI's start scanning. I noticed the prolonged eye contact, more smiling than usual, the tone in her voice seemed a bit softer with me, the huge compliance/investment by letting me have her work email address (try it sometime with a nurse/receptionist and report what they say), the fact that she charged me pretty cheaply compared to what I make and should be charged and then in the myriad of my physical ailments it hit me... This chick wants me. Fuck, feeling like shit almost blurred out the subtle signs in front of me. Almost. I didn't number close that day, I decided to keep her on ice and let her help me professionally as this was more valuable than doing a flaky number with little deep diving in front of everyone. Nah, this type of game always needs a more delicate touch. Thus, in my concurrent sessions with the doc, I saw her more and more, upped the sexual stares, cockyness, deep diving, pre selection, vulnerability, ect. In the end, I almost decided to not game her even though she was begging for it because as I mentioned above, professionally she is more valuable and being in good standing with a contact like that is invaluable to me.
But sadly, I needed to go back to see the doc n shit but when I did I didn't see her anymore like usual. This troubled me deeply, so after not seeing her four times I used the email she gave me to ask her an innocent question about something I already knew the answer to. If she responds, then she still works there and I can proceed accordingly. She doesn't, probably doesn't work there anymore and I lost a valuable contact and my chance to fuck her.
She did but was a little blunt, not much to go on. So I started an "innocent" conversation through email that soon turned very flirty and I asked what her schedule there was so I can "stop by and say hello". She gave me the days and I then wrote to her that I would stop by soon and that "muffins were on her" (something she mentioned in the past that she loves). After telling me that they should be on me because it was her birthday followed by many lols and hahas I agreed and told her I would go see her soon. Fast forward to today, I walk in (muffin in hand) and she's not at her usual spot. Not like her to lie to me, I decided to walk around and finally spot her at the opposite side of the building. She's with a patient and after a couple of minutes of waiting we are finally alone. I hand her the cupcake and wish her happy bday. She loves it, she gives me this look that i know denotes deep attraction towards me. I shoot the shit with her, flirt, making her laugh, not even trying much (fundamentals/experience/sexual vibe paying dividends). Holding up a big line in the process. We dgaf about it. She tells me it won't be long before she leaves that job and does something else with her life. This really saddens me for some reason and before I get her personal number coworkers swoop in and cockblock me by taking her attention away towards work. I say I have to go, she tells me it was great seeing me, to email her if I needed anything and I leave.
In the car I know I got one way to cop that number and moving shit forward even more with her. More of what I did on my second post. This is getting too long...
Guys, remember this is a married hired gun, simple game will rarely work. You have to let temptation, lust, and your absence work the mystery of you in her mind. This is not always easy game and have to plan moves like you would in chess. I understand this is not for everyone and that's fine; but remember some icy player can use long term strategies like these (while fucking easier targets) on yo girl. It behooves you to know the type of players and their strategies to seduce taken women.
