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So I met this girl on a dating app. We met up after talking for a bit. She stated in the begining that she wanted something serious and I agreed. When we met up, we hit it off. We started texting everyday and met up a few weeks later. It was great again. I also noticed she deleted her dating profile, so I assumed she was serious. She said she wanted to take things slow which I am cool with. We met up a second time, had a great time and some crazy sex. She was texting me pics of her going to town on herself the next day.
Everything was going well until last week. She seemed to have less detailed responses. I realized I was always initating messages so I pulled back a bit. She was taking longer to reply it seemed.
Over the weekend she snaped me pics of her at a concert (after she saw I posted a story). I was like oh cool where are you, and she said she was at a festival. Thought it was a bit odd she didn’t mention anything about it, but I said have fun, looks cool!
Radio silence the next day, and I texted her this morning asking how the festival was. She said it was awesome, and that she loved seeing live music again. No follow up, how was your weekend or anyhing, like I feel like she would have in the past. I didn’t say anything back and she sent a snap of her cat saying she was going to nap with him.
I feel she could have sent it to other people, I don’t know. So I really like this girl but I don’t know what to do. Is she pulling away? Is she playing hard to get? Everything online says to give her space so I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to make this a longer term thing, but I don’t feel I have a strong hand to play.
Should I respond to the text from this morning? Or should I go radio silence until she reaches out.
Thanks.
[TL;DR: Girl and I were getting along great, and then she seemd to pull back a little. Don’t know if I should ask to hang out again, or give her space.]
Everything was going well until last week. She seemed to have less detailed responses. I realized I was always initating messages so I pulled back a bit. She was taking longer to reply it seemed.
Over the weekend she snaped me pics of her at a concert (after she saw I posted a story). I was like oh cool where are you, and she said she was at a festival. Thought it was a bit odd she didn’t mention anything about it, but I said have fun, looks cool!
Radio silence the next day, and I texted her this morning asking how the festival was. She said it was awesome, and that she loved seeing live music again. No follow up, how was your weekend or anyhing, like I feel like she would have in the past. I didn’t say anything back and she sent a snap of her cat saying she was going to nap with him.
I feel she could have sent it to other people, I don’t know. So I really like this girl but I don’t know what to do. Is she pulling away? Is she playing hard to get? Everything online says to give her space so I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to make this a longer term thing, but I don’t feel I have a strong hand to play.
Should I respond to the text from this morning? Or should I go radio silence until she reaches out.
Thanks.
[TL;DR: Girl and I were getting along great, and then she seemd to pull back a little. Don’t know if I should ask to hang out again, or give her space.]
