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aka impact play.
An open question for those with something to say about:
a) experience
b) perspective/philosophy
c) resources (books, article, technique, perspective, safety, etc)
I myself do not particularly enjoy the straight up act of hitting, it's not nearly among my favorite element of dominance, but sometimes it is my goddamn duty.
In my experience, sex in this way can lead to intense attachment.
(For any beginners reading, please realize you probably don't have context to do this safely and effectively. Don't just hit people).
At this point, I see hitting as the act of giving sensation, with all the means and technique involved there, combined with the infinitely nuanced mental aspect.
Particularly interested in the boring stuff, such as what you have learned about communication, uncovering desires, etc.
Please share!
An open question for those with something to say about:
a) experience
b) perspective/philosophy
c) resources (books, article, technique, perspective, safety, etc)
I myself do not particularly enjoy the straight up act of hitting, it's not nearly among my favorite element of dominance, but sometimes it is my goddamn duty.
In my experience, sex in this way can lead to intense attachment.
(For any beginners reading, please realize you probably don't have context to do this safely and effectively. Don't just hit people).
At this point, I see hitting as the act of giving sensation, with all the means and technique involved there, combined with the infinitely nuanced mental aspect.
Particularly interested in the boring stuff, such as what you have learned about communication, uncovering desires, etc.
Please share!
