Holding back and it sucks!

[r3volv3r]

Ok here is my issue..

When I have a conversation with a girl that I "know" or probably I will meet her again I cannot move things sexualy. My social condition has been improved (thanks to this and some other sites) and I love it . I can make first my move and I know the reason why I am doing it but when the girl is into me and I feel it, I just shut her down and somehow end the situation. I push my self not to express my feelings which it sucks. At the time I feel myself to push it and that I care not to screw up, but when I go home I am really sure that it would be better if I had tried it and I know that I don't care what she or anyone thinks.


I know it's a residues from my old programming and I try to change it. I want to be able to express myself totally and sexually and I think it's my biggest issue.

Thank you for any advice

 

[D'EmpEroR]

When preparation meets opportunty, success is guarranted. But until you take actions, no success will come.
Glad you've come across the GC website (www.girlschase.com). Stay anchored to the site always, Learn new skills and techniques always, keep improving on yourself, and meet more women. Time heals everything, but you have to give the time some time by improving and learning fast and things are gonna be pretty fine as desired. As Chase wrote in a post ''keep doing the right things you need to do and the good results will come''. So, pay the price and win a Prize and with time, those constraints are gonna be no big deal for you.
That's my piece, hope it's helpful.
See you at the other end of the rainbow,
Good luck bro.!

 

[Parkour]

You don't want to screw it up but you want to push. This is a normal sticking point that you'll eventually break through. I'm honestly still working on it myself. The good news is that while you keep thinking and working on it, perhaps with women you won't see again, you'll get more calibrated about possible reactions. Likewise as you get better at getting investment, she'll make it easier for you because she wants it. You're on the right path moving toward the solution. You'll inevitably find your self in the right opportunity and BAM! You'll move it forward and even if it doesn't go well, you'll see that it's not so bad and if it goes well, you'll feel amazing

 

[PinotNoir]

It all comes down to mindset. Most people call it "inner game," but it also comes from the influence of the outside.

Take 2 guys:

Guy A approached 50 women this month and has dates lined up with 10 beautiful women.

Guy B approached 10 women this month and has 2 dates lined up.

Which do you think will be bolder?

It all stems from a scarcity mentality, which is due to not approaching and dating enough women. You have a limited perspective of the world and of women because of the lack of experience with abundance.

In the meantime, there are 2 mantras you can tell yourself every day:
"There are tons of beautiful women that love me and want me, and I want them. In fact, there are a ridiculous amount of beautiful women in this world and in my life that are eager for me. It is amazing."
"I am accepting of other people's free will. I cannot force someone to love me. If I push for sex, and she says no, it's best to find out now instead of later. Else, I'm just wasting my time for months."

Get out there. Meet and date many women. Realize that if you screw up with one that it's so minuscule, like a grain of sand in a sea of women.

Once you're doing this, you'll be a lot bolder because you won't care as much if you screw up. It will also save you a lot of time in finding out the women that are truly interested in you, and not just wanting you as an orbiter for validation. Do yourself a favor, and do all of the women that you haven't met yet a favor. Move fast, persist, and if no dice, then meet the women that are craving for your hard cock.

 

[r3volv3r]

@D'EmpEroR, thank you bro really helpfull. I totally agree action is the key

@Parkour, very accurate my friend. Every time I break through some of these points I feel wonderful.

@PinotNoir, I love you man


Ok I am gona say it, I feel moved for these people here who took the time and answer me. And only your existence makes me feel better.

Have a nice journey.