HOLY FUCK NEED HELP ASAP PLEASE... LOL

[Rage]

HAHA I need help asap if someone could help me here I'd be so very fucking grateful!!! I texted 2 different girls and accidentally texted 1 asking details to meet up using the other girls name.

Diana is a 27 year old chick that's a nurse who I know randomly, marias a 19 year old in my ibm class.

I texted diana "hey maria when friday do you think woud be a good time to meet... I come in the morning for class would 12 be a good time possibly"

then deleted the text on iphone but apparently that just deletes my record of it (thanks sis for teachingme something that doesnt fucking work)

then texted diana after (thinking it deleted) hey diana, how was your trip what's it like to be back ? and are you still good to meet on thursday

.... lmao

... Diana texted me back 10 minutes ago who are you talking to? to maria or me?

FUUUU hahahahahahahah i think its hilarious but want to go ont he date with both girls.

Its a test and I know I can fucking pass it... am thinking what to text back yet; any ideas help temerndously!! will text her within 30 minutes or so.

Don't let me die, please save me my friends lol.



-Rage

 

[Rage]

Think i might have salvaged this, just texted the girl... lets see what the chick texts back and we'll see ....

We can play fill in the blanks though; what would you guys have texted back in this situation?

Sigh, I do still hope this shit pans out for me lol, I'd love to get to bang this girl...

-Rage

 

[Thedoctor]

Rage,

You're overthinking this one. There's no way this girl would know who Maria is. She could be your sister for all she knows. Just carry on the convo as though the text was intended for a friend. Do not make a big deal about it, try to explain yourself, or apologize. But don't disregard it completely either.

Here's what I would reply "Last text was for Maria, phone's being dumb." then just carry on with whatever the previous convo was. If she asks any follow up questions, just say she's a friend and carry on. Any girl who's not overly crazy will drop it at that point.

-John

 

[Rage]

Ah well this is an interesting conversation to say the least...

critique my form bros!

salvage text (pretty shitty in my opinion)

I'm so sorry I didnt realize that sent; maria's a girl in my group from ibm class im supposed to meet with ehr and create a product to export to the phillipines an the other two people in my group have to come up with the business plan

... followewd by

I deleted the message sent to you but I think it only deletes my record of it... I'm sorry Diana hope you aren't upset lol

She doesn't reply; an hour goes by. I don't really care about this girl but wanna try and send one less hail mary text

this is our conversation back to back

Me- I was really looking forward to thursday with you; but suppose I can't do anything now if you don't want to see me anymore [the puppy dog last ditch approach]
Her- Awww Rage it's nice that you're interested in taking me out, but I'm much too old for you [is that a too old for me shit test !!! MAN hahahaha ... haven't run into one of those in a while]
Me- I thought we were hanging out and getting food, didn't say anything about taking you out? Lol... Do you still wanna hang out like we originally planned ot not Diana?
Me- (Sent alongisde above text, to take the edge off the last one) It's okk if not no hard feelings... If yeah tha thursday pretty much is the only day I can meet... schools busy all the time for me with engineering
Her- Let's play by ear (shit test demolished boomQ!)
Me- How do you play that? (I'm asking her a serious question... as in serious pretending to play dumb, cause dumb guys are hot)
Her- It just means let's see what happens as day comes closer
Me- Oh ok... wel i know I'll be free after 1, will you have work that day
Me- WEll play it by ear then I guess! Bye

know she was on her phone and saw this last text and didnt text me back; i was more into this chick because she's rich and a nurse and was almost my landlord and had chased me over text fora while and I had deleted her number but then put it back in to try and last ditch effrot an old number. She went to fucking cabo last week, man!! would've been the oldest girl I'd slept with and the richest too; looks are decent .... but yeah.

don't care about the indivdual girl, I care about the learning !! the skills man !

What would you guys say i did bad did all right or did horribly; what would you guys have done different.

I'll see if I text this girl thursday; maybe if i feel up to it. If not will probably delete her number... I met no girls today because I have a few of tehm bunched up and have to go on dates a few days later this week... and am kinda filledup to what i want to be to still hav time to lift and write and work on important things and stuff.

Let me know what you guys think thanks for any input

inevitably ill learn things here; hope you guys do too potentially, that's largely my reason in sharing

-Rage

 

[Rage]

Rage,

You're overthinking this one. There's no way this girl would know who Maria is. She could be your sister for all she knows. Just carry on the convo as though the text was intended for a friend. Do not make a big deal about it, try to explain yourself, or apologize. But don't disregard it completely either.

Here's what I would reply "Last text was for Maria, phone's being dumb." then just carry on with whatever the previous convo was. If she asks any follow up questions, just say she's a friend and carry on. Any girl who's not overly crazy will drop it at that point.

-John

Hey John thanks for the advice... yeah a bit better than what i ended up texting with my long explanation... hmm lesson learned i guess i sohuldnt have really explained it at all then. Any thoughts on the rest of what I ended up saying?

We'll see what happens with this girl, but anyway thanks for the input man!

-Rage

 

[Thedoctor]

Rage,

Any thoughts on the rest of what I ended up saying?

Yeah, you went a little overboard with the explanation and then admitted guilt by saying "but suppose I can't do anything now if you don't want to see me anymore ".
This text makes it seem like you did something wrong.

And you seem a bit overzealous to text. Have a bit of patience and wait for her to respond before sending another text. If you look at your convo, she sends 1 short text for two of your long texts on average. If you ask a question, wait for a reply, even if it takes until the next day. You're constantly sending another follow up text which makes you seem needy.

-John

 

[Rage]

good points thanks for keeping it 100%; yeah you are right, if I recall right now, I sent the second text an hour later because I thought the first I had sent (the explanation) was very poor and wouldn't pan out on it's own.

Other texts were instant back and forth between us but you are right could have kept them shorter and maybe waited longer too, and altogether been less needy.

Will keep in mind for future girls, thank you Doc.

-Rage

Edit: doesn't matter much now, but i could also mention... how you said that, sohuld have just texted phone acting up or something small like that and not treated it like a big deal... i considered that, but had guessed that she'd think "bullshit" and know better than that and that it would be a porblem or a big deal.

Maybe this is one of those situations where my assumptions and frame I approach it with are what she ends up mirroring and fitting to inevitably.