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Hi Guys,
I learn that older people think in conformity and segregation, which is basically relying on experience (past processes). I learn this with people when i see people who are broke like Mike Tyson, the late Michael Jackson. So what is conformity and segregation and their weaknesses?
Conformity - Experiences.
Weakness - Too rigid and not present. Solution: Young people/Letting go and using experiences as references instead of operating from experiences. BIG DIFFERENCE. It is like that childhood enthusiasm.
Segregation - In dating, they are Friends and Lovers. At work, they are employees, friends, bosses.
Weakness: Too rigid and not relating. Solution: The occasional relating here and there
Even with Chase, i didn't honor that segregation. Partly because i don't know. Women know this and they know this very well. I didn't honor the segregation. I actually didn't honor a lot of segregation. Given an example, when women are angry, it is because you didn't respect her of you being a couple, and that there are some things she prefer not to share. Same thing with children. Same thing with people who are left wing or liberals that people hate (haha!). With dating, try not to sleep with ex too much (lolx) or go the friend's route.
What is my plan for future problems, especially segregation?
This goes beyond, like people having conversations and dragging you down. I remember being warmth and relate to one person, and he keep talking about the same thing over and over again. I try to deflect it using something else. He didn't get it. He keep going down a conversation that i didn't like and after a about 4 to 5 encounters, i told him to shut up in a neutral manner, looking him right in the eye with no judgement and smiling abit after a few seconds. He actually had that look that he respected me for that calling out but who knows.
It works.
but i am going to try and experiment it more.
p.s: I put this in advance because i think it has deeper inclinations that influences us in ways we do not know.
Zac
I learn that older people think in conformity and segregation, which is basically relying on experience (past processes). I learn this with people when i see people who are broke like Mike Tyson, the late Michael Jackson. So what is conformity and segregation and their weaknesses?
Conformity - Experiences.
Weakness - Too rigid and not present. Solution: Young people/Letting go and using experiences as references instead of operating from experiences. BIG DIFFERENCE. It is like that childhood enthusiasm.
Segregation - In dating, they are Friends and Lovers. At work, they are employees, friends, bosses.
Weakness: Too rigid and not relating. Solution: The occasional relating here and there
Even with Chase, i didn't honor that segregation. Partly because i don't know. Women know this and they know this very well. I didn't honor the segregation. I actually didn't honor a lot of segregation. Given an example, when women are angry, it is because you didn't respect her of you being a couple, and that there are some things she prefer not to share. Same thing with children. Same thing with people who are left wing or liberals that people hate (haha!). With dating, try not to sleep with ex too much (lolx) or go the friend's route.
What is my plan for future problems, especially segregation?
This goes beyond, like people having conversations and dragging you down. I remember being warmth and relate to one person, and he keep talking about the same thing over and over again. I try to deflect it using something else. He didn't get it. He keep going down a conversation that i didn't like and after a about 4 to 5 encounters, i told him to shut up in a neutral manner, looking him right in the eye with no judgement and smiling abit after a few seconds. He actually had that look that he respected me for that calling out but who knows.
It works.
but i am going to try and experiment it more.p.s: I put this in advance because i think it has deeper inclinations that influences us in ways we do not know.
Zac
