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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I'm just gonna jumps straight to it (my car is at the mechanics, so I have to be up early), I've been approaching girls with a pretty good consistency but I was curious about the whole online thing so I signed up on a dating site. It's going well for only a few days in, an interesting experience thus far and I've been reading up on online game as well to really milk this the best I can but there's one thing I can't quite grasp.

Many of the messages I write to initiate contact use what the lady of interest has said about herself on her profile (I've found girls looking for a relationship rather than just a friendship or hookup will usually write more about themselves). However with the girls who are really just on the site to hookup don't write much about themselves other than they're looking to hookup. It's frustrating because it makes it more difficult to reach this person who also is looking to experience something with no strings attached (I'm not looking for anything specific, the way I see it, we go on the date and hook up. After that, we'll see about how I feel about getting into a relationship (of which, I'm not usually too great with but I'm trying to work on it).

I feel like being direct would be far too easy and forth coming, wouldn't she want to avoid feeling like a slut by hooking up with some random online? I realize this is why I would need to give these girls an excuse but that's the problem. Initiating contact with these dames is about as confusing as day one cold approaching for me, what the fuck am I supposed to write? "Hey Jane, I realize we don't know shit about each other but you wanna meet up and get your brains fucked out by some stranger online?" "Yeah?" "Sounds great! See you in five." XD (that's me being sarcastic in case the extremely cringe worthy dialogue didn't give it away). Anyway, leave it below ya got any wise words of advice!
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Dude, Flirt like you just met her in a bar. Call her "Cutie", be coy.

If the pictures are hot, and she mentions hookups, beware of scammers and bots. Run some of the pictures through Google Image search.

Most women with options don't need to blatantly say hookup
 

Michal

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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You can use something about her anyway or make a cold read. Even if women are there to choke on a dick, the moment you even imply that you perceive she is there for that reason, she will back away. Unless you are really her type.

Usually, if the girl has absolutely nothing writen about her, I use some go to lines that I dont want to disclose here for some reasons. But what I can share is some adapted stuff that Chase used that work great as well like:
"You seem like an adveventurous girl"
"You look like a nice person. Are you a nice person?"
"I hear the girls who have brown/blue/green eyes (or wear this, that or whatever) are very trustworthy/creative/openminded/adventurous" (something that looks like it fits to her)
Or something simple like:
"I wish more girls dressed like that" or "wish more girls had a style like the dress you wear on your X picture"
Or you can even go stuff like:
"Are you an early bird or a night owl?"
"Are you a dog person, cat person or dragon person?"

Whatever, a lot of things can work, however online.. if you do not have good pictures, it is game over anyways. So it does not matter much what you write. But avoid any generic "you are so cute" or other stuff that puts her on a pedestal. Also, what you write might not be that bad, sometimes the girl does not feel the right emotions so she does not respond. And then she forgets about it because during that day, another 20 dudes messaged her
 
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