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I'm just gonna jumps straight to it (my car is at the mechanics, so I have to be up early), I've been approaching girls with a pretty good consistency but I was curious about the whole online thing so I signed up on a dating site. It's going well for only a few days in, an interesting experience thus far and I've been reading up on online game as well to really milk this the best I can but there's one thing I can't quite grasp.
Many of the messages I write to initiate contact use what the lady of interest has said about herself on her profile (I've found girls looking for a relationship rather than just a friendship or hookup will usually write more about themselves). However with the girls who are really just on the site to hookup don't write much about themselves other than they're looking to hookup. It's frustrating because it makes it more difficult to reach this person who also is looking to experience something with no strings attached (I'm not looking for anything specific, the way I see it, we go on the date and hook up. After that, we'll see about how I feel about getting into a relationship (of which, I'm not usually too great with but I'm trying to work on it).
I feel like being direct would be far too easy and forth coming, wouldn't she want to avoid feeling like a slut by hooking up with some random online? I realize this is why I would need to give these girls an excuse but that's the problem. Initiating contact with these dames is about as confusing as day one cold approaching for me, what the fuck am I supposed to write? "Hey Jane, I realize we don't know shit about each other but you wanna meet up and get your brains fucked out by some stranger online?" "Yeah?" "Sounds great! See you in five." XD (that's me being sarcastic in case the extremely cringe worthy dialogue didn't give it away). Anyway, leave it below ya got any wise words of advice!
Many of the messages I write to initiate contact use what the lady of interest has said about herself on her profile (I've found girls looking for a relationship rather than just a friendship or hookup will usually write more about themselves). However with the girls who are really just on the site to hookup don't write much about themselves other than they're looking to hookup. It's frustrating because it makes it more difficult to reach this person who also is looking to experience something with no strings attached (I'm not looking for anything specific, the way I see it, we go on the date and hook up. After that, we'll see about how I feel about getting into a relationship (of which, I'm not usually too great with but I'm trying to work on it).
I feel like being direct would be far too easy and forth coming, wouldn't she want to avoid feeling like a slut by hooking up with some random online? I realize this is why I would need to give these girls an excuse but that's the problem. Initiating contact with these dames is about as confusing as day one cold approaching for me, what the fuck am I supposed to write? "Hey Jane, I realize we don't know shit about each other but you wanna meet up and get your brains fucked out by some stranger online?" "Yeah?" "Sounds great! See you in five." XD (that's me being sarcastic in case the extremely cringe worthy dialogue didn't give it away). Anyway, leave it below ya got any wise words of advice!