FR+ Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out

[lux7]

I think it’s not the first time it happens to me.
I get a girl back home, she’s horny, we do kiss and get otherwise sexual, but she thinks she can take everything back and get out of the room to re-start things in the future.

This one in particular was almost annoying, she was of the horny-aggressive kind of style. She bit my lip I was afraid it was going to bleed and was seconds away from destroying the atmosphere by punching her/telling her to stop the fu** off –a huge turn off for me- (not the first time it happens as well).
As she was on my laptop she tried to wrestle me back towards the couches (I not aggressively resisted till a draw, let’s say).

POSSIBLE MISTAKES
Maybe the main mistake was there? I should have dominated the violent/aggressive situations, repaid in kind and subdued her into sex while we wrestled/bit lips (though this kind of stuff just annoys me rather than making me horny)?

-Another possible mistake was that she got my phone number before coming in –I shouldn’t have given it maybe, she repeated several times to contact her again- and got my surname when here from a laying around driving licence, thus giving the impression I was reachable.

-Another possible “mistake” was that I had very good wine home and a couple hundred Euros laying around. She noticed big time as she asked if I shouldn't hide money once a "stranger" is in the house. That might have seemed like a lot to some poor ass painter girl -I was there not long ago- that she thought “well” to slow things down (yeah sure that’s gonna work!)




What do you think?
Any similar experiences?

 

[Motiv]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

I had a somewhat similarly frustrating situation tonight, Lux.

My issue is I didn't even get the girl home who invited me out and paid for my drink tonight—reading your FR+ makes me feel a little less, shall we say, retarded.

I'm about to post what I can… probably tomorrow since it's too late now.

Good hunting in the future.

I swear I'm almost happier swearing off women entirely, but I'm trying so hard not to feel bitter—with every fiber of my being. It's tough and frustrating.

-M

 

[lux7]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

Nah, not really major frustration, just a bit because of the brazen move of leaving to try to up her value and have me chasing and prove a (childish) point that she's in control and high value (while in reality i respect her a lot less now).


I think a big part of being frustrated / not frustrated is how you like/feel about masturbation . I most of the time enjoy coming more via masturbation than sex. That makes not getting sex a lot easier to cope with.

 

[Motiv]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

Nah, not really major frustration, just a bit because of the brazen move of leaving to try to up her value and have me chasing and prove a (childish) point that she's in control and high value (while in reality i respect her a lot less now).


I think a big part of being frustrated / not frustrated is how you like/feel about masturbation . I most of the time enjoy coming more via masturbation than sex. That makes not getting sex a lot easier to cope with.

It's a funny thing about the sex part with me Lux… maybe I'm just too far gone fucked up in the head, but I honestly hardly give a dam about my own actual orgasm. What I really want is for girls (as many as possible) to want me sexually, then blow their minds sky high, and then return to my solitude—seduction has become an egomaniacal pursuit for me.

My frustration comes from failing to attract them sexually.

 

[Motiv]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

I'm sorry that I keep coming off so negative in my posting lately. I shouldn't be.

All I can really say is that for now, I'm not really sure why I should try to take women to bed when I just get caught in traps I haven't the wisdom yet to avoid.

Humanity is not what I was raised to believe, and coming to terms with that in a non-destructive manner is a major challenge for me right now.

Sorry for hijacking your thread, Lux—ramblings of a confused man. Whenever I can be more helpful, I will try my best.

Sincerely,
-M

 

[lux7]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

Eheh no reason for sorry M, people go through up and downs, it's normal.
And you're a guy i respect, you got real talent and you've already achieved the peak in one of the noblest and most beautiful form of arts...

 

[trashKENNUT]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

lux7,

When women become playfully violent or sudden aggressive things.

In Asia, i think this 'nonsense' exist a hell lot. I don't know why. I mention to a particular person in here that women has a "nuke button". This button is when she knows she can't get you and thus, she needs to destroy everything and goes on a rampage.

You see this with successful people getting sued by women but then i realize normal human beings get this too. It's not exactly attainability.

It's the mix of years of suppression, being judged, don't know how to express female desire, fear, lack of sexual experience and probably a lot more. It's a 3 in 1 combo to say the least. and you can accidentally triggers this in women and their weaknesses is expose. Thus they have to put a 'bitch cunt' mode.

Oh well, Pretty profound..

Zac

 

[Motiv]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

You guys are really great people! It makes everything feel a lot more manageable realizing I'm not alone in my thought patterns here.

GC is way more than just a site to learn about girls—this is a real men's community, and I am grateful to be a part of it.

I promised to get a video interview of Schwarzenegger up, and it's almost ready: going to be loaded with time stamp links to the really good stuff!

Best always,
-M

 

[stratvm]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

It's a funny thing about the sex part with me Lux… maybe I'm just too far gone fucked up in the head, but I honestly hardly give a dam about my own actual orgasm. What I really want is for girls (as many as possible) to want me sexually, then blow their minds sky high, and then return to my solitude—seduction has become an egomaniacal pursuit for me.

My frustration comes from failing to attract them sexually.

same here.

M,

I used to feel EXACTLY like this. So much so that I struggled for years with performance anxiety that because I was SO focused on impressing the women and not focused at all that sex might actually just be a fun thing and feel good for us both. Also, I did seduction half the time not even because I wanted to sleep with the girls, but to just prove to myself that I wasn't a loser.

same here.

i think now i realized a very important thing that was wrong with me.

 

[maximus6004]

Re: FR+ - Horny girl gets playfully violent & storms out - HELP ME UNDERSTAND

You didn't screen her well enough. If she is a violent aggressive sexually person and you are not, why would you want to be with her? Not every girl will work for you screen for them. I used to take just anything when I was first starting out and did not understand this. If you don't match up, let it go. Plenty of other woman out there.