Hot girl in class likes me, what can I do?

[KollegahDerBoss]

Pre-story:
So basically there is a new girl in my school who happens to be pretty hot.
At first she started to hang out with the tall, muscular and hot guy we have in class, but after a while she started to talk with EVERYONE in a friendly way, except me.
I do talk with other girls at school, however I never talked with her - and she also never initiated conversation.

What happened:
Today, when we had break, I sat down on a bench, she sat glued right next to me, kind of like this:

Except she wasn't bending over so much. There was plenty of space but she decided to glue right next to me.

Well, it was a bit awkward for me, since I never talked with her, but I was casually looking at my phone and sometimes looking at empty space while she did.
Every time she repositioned herself, she made sure to bump into my leg, my arm etc.
After about 10 minutes, she stand up and started talking with some friend. I felt like she left frustrated, but I'm not sure about that.

My thoughts:

I feel like I should have done something, but it felt very awkward to do so because all of my classmates were there, and even 2 teachers.
I felt a really big social pressure on me at that moment. Part of me just wanted to talk to her and get her number or even kiss her on the spot after some talk, but the other part of me didn't want to
put social pressure on me and also on her since I'm not the "outgoing, super social" type, but more the cool guy which just hangs around and casually talks with other people, so it wouldn't fit into my type.

What should have I done? What can I do? Was this the perfect opportunity and did I ruin it?

 

[Drck]

Hi Kollegah,

How about you, do you like her?

I'll try to comment as I read:


* after a while she started to talk with EVERYONE in a friendly way, except me
>>>> She is attracted to you. Always Assume Attraction (read article on main GC). She talks to other people easily because she is not much attracted to them. She is avoiding you at the moment because she doesn't know what to think about you. She likes you and thus she is too anxious to approach you

* I sat down on a bench, she sat glued right next to me, kind of like this
>>>> Always Assume Attraction. She came closer to you and sat by you. What is she saying? She is saying: Hi. She wants to find out about you, who you are, what do you like, who are your friends, if you have a girlfriend, what movies do you watch, what books do you read, what do you study and why, where do you live and with whom...

* There was plenty of space but she decided to glue right next to me
>>>> Assume even more Attraction. She is saying: HELLO! She is saying: Look, I could have sat down in ten different places, with fifty different people, but I chose to sit down right next to you. I want to say Hi...

* Every time she repositioned herself, she made sure to bump into my leg, my arm etc.
>>>> Well, now you just have to Assume Attraction. You have no other options. She keeps bumping into you, it seems like a coincidence, but there is no coincidence at all. She does it for purpose, several times. Girls touch guys they like for purpose. She is saying: Hey, Wake Up, I came all the way here, I sat next to you and I want to talk to you! Stop staring into your phone and stop staring into empty space - talk to me, say something, I'm right here...

* After about 10 minutes, she stand up and started talking with some friend. I felt like she left frustrated, but I'm not sure about that
>>>> Yes, she was frustrated. She was waiting couple of minutes for you to say Hi... Now she thinks you don't like her...

* I feel like I should have done something, but it felt very awkward to do so because all of my classmates were there, and even 2 teachers
>>>> Trust your feelings. She came after you and not after your classmates, nor teachers. You should have done something, even just talk a little...

* Part of me just wanted to talk to her and get her number or even kiss her on the spot after some talk, but the other part of me didn't want to
>>>> Go with the first part, the one that wants number and kiss. Leave the other parts sit behind...

* put social pressure on me and also on her since I'm not the "outgoing, super social" type, but more the cool guy which just hangs around and casually talks with other people
>>>> You are who you are. You can be outgoing or not, you can have white skin color or not, you can be cool or hot, you can sometimes talk to people and other times not .... but she came after you. She likes you, she likes you just the way you are. She has no clue what you think about yourself, she doesn't know anything about your social pressure. She only sees interesting guy, to her you are an attractive guy...


Good lessons to learn:
1. Always Assume Attraction
2. Stop fucking with your phone when girls are around
3. Talk to girls, especially those who show interest in you